It's happened.
With my ex, he wouldn't have told me and he'd have tried to hide it. Except he sucked at lying even more than he sucked at being honest with himself. It never happened.
With my current partner, it has happened. We currently are LDR due to circumstances, but even if we lived together, I'd plan to travel alone. Or at least have days apart if we do travel together.
It's nice to be independent, and better yet to come back with stories to tell.
Plus, if we end of working for the same company, it'll be likely we'll have different scheduling needs. We'll have some vacays together, but he may need to go alone if I'm entrenched in a project.
I don't like what happens when I go on vacations during projects. Things tend to fall apart.
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That happened. He invited me to Cuba but i wouldn't have paid $500+ for a cruise to see artifacts. When i visit a place, its gotta have more than a beach. I need theme parks and brand name places to shop. Its gotta be stuff im really into. However he did come back a totally diff person and our relationship went downhill. So maybe i shouldve went
I think you should go and enjoy yourself , your still young yet to
be so committed to him , it's nice you worry about him , just tell
him you got free vacation offered to you, If i had a girlfriend who
was most likely younger than me cause i like younger women
it would not be a problem and i would accept it and not be mad
i want her to enjoy herself without being worried if i am going be
mad or be upset but than again all Men see things in different
prospective.
It depends what type of spring break vacation is it and what will you be doing on it. I think if it's just girls it's safer but if it's girls and their boyfriends it's tough, it's also hard if it's a racy mingle with boys spring break kind of vacation too... It all depends on what you are doing
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You can do as you please. You’re not “skating on thin ice” ... he’s not your dad. Tell him you’re going on vacation.
Sad to say it but women are no different to men or who would men have a fling with eh?
Just be warned not all men are the same size you might be changing not only the relationship but what you both enjoy together I'm a normal size guy my ex had a holiday fling with this guy with a huge one she confessed she was a bit drunk it was like putting it out an open window obviously we are no longer together and she's single no one wants her as they all heard about the donkey dick she had on holiday bare that in mind go on holiday just have respect for your partner if you can't trust yourself break up with him I'm not saying you will be unfaithful but it's the girls saying what happens away stays away eh unfortunately this only applies to a man his bits stay the same a womens dont lol be safe have a nice honest respectful holiday remember if he's not happy it's because he loves you and is afraid of the above storyI wouldn't mind, we are individual people and can go have fun experiences without each other too, but I would be hurt that they didn't tell me but just dropped it on me like that. And just assumed that I couldn't go so didn't bother inviting? Ouch, being invited even if you know you can't go still males you feel includec. My relationship is based on trust and this is equal to lying.
I would feel sad but it depends on the circumstances. My boyfriend went on a holiday last year with his dad. He would have invited me but they went to a place I would have hated. But if they went to a place that i love or really want to go to, then i would really be worried and upset
It depends if she is doing something I wouldn’t like or she needs some relaxing time to herself. For me, it wouldn’t because sometimes we’ll be in need of a break from each other. Now, more than a week is too much time from the other person. I haven’t seen my girlfriend in a month and because of that, she wants to break up with me.
I'd be okay with it, I would definitely wish that I could come and have some time together and feel a little bit upset but if they want a vacation by themselves then they can have one! I would just hope they'd keep me informed on how they're doing and it would be nice to know what's going on there! I just hope they'd let me know before so and that they wouldn't do anything bad..
You should have invited him regardless whether he has work. You took away his option to say yes or no. You decided for him. You aren’t doing him a favor... your thin ice has gotten thinner.
I'd only be upset because he's suppose to let me sit on his face at least once everyday.
But I guess if he still had to give head to some girl everyday I'd be fine with it.I probably wouldn’t mind in the dating phase as long as he was with responsible people. If we were married though I’d definitely wonder why he didn’t want me to come and be upset.
Just tell him you were invited and will take this chance. Just enjoy yourself.
I don't think I would mind as long as there is trust. A partner could cheat on you in any kind of circumstances so is not worth to limit yourself like that.Its about trust and letting go. My wife goes on vacation many times a year to get away from things. When she gets back, she feels great and recharged. I think its great she can do this.
I would not care. I went to Europe without my ex numerous times
First thing you should do is tell him so that he knows immediately that you are going and he can't go.
If you are going with your family or it's a girls trip I'd be okay with it.
Depends on the reason and the kind of vacation. I think occasioanal short vacations on your own are perfectly fine when in a relationship.
Lol At least invite him if he can't do to work it's all good but at least extend the invitation
Going on vacation and going on spring break are very different things. You're fucked! 😂
I wouldn't get too mad, I'd certainly wish I was there, but my doctors strongly advise against traveling, it would be really hard to anyways.
I mean if she didn't tell me, that wouldn't be nice.
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