It’s not the first time he has gone away with his family around NYE and I understand that there might not be much left of the holidays of just them as a family. We have pre celebrated new years together before he went away but I can’t help but get a bit sad/annoyed that he’s not here for new years. He keeps telling me how much fun he’s having and I’m happy he’s having fun but apart of me just gets annoyed and I’m not sure if its normal to feel this way or I’m overreacting.
We have been together for a few years now.
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I'd Be Wondering, While Feeling Hurt and Disrespected----AM I PART OF THE FAMILY? xxoo
I’m actually the one going away for NYE with my family each year lol but my boyfriend doesn’t mind it bcs then he gets to chill at home all alone. I also still spare time to facetime him even when I’m out celebrating with my family so that my boyfriend won’t feel too left out.
I think it’s fair that you might be feeling left out esp since I’m sure you wished that you get to kiss your man at midnight. Has he ever extended the invitation to celebrate NYE together with his family?
No he hasn’t, and I know he would text me that he misses me from time to time and I get he’s on holidays too and I’m happy he’s having a great time, it just kind of feels shitty a little bit. I totally understand and happy he gets to go away but when you want to spend new years with your mans and he’s telling you all the wonderful things he’s doing, I can’t help but feel a bit annoyed although I’m happy for him. If that makes any sense lol
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