I haven't seen my girlfriend for 1 month, and I don't really miss her. Does this mean I have fallen out of love?

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We've been together for 4 and a half years and we are both 26. Recently she left on a family trip for 2 weeks. I didn't really miss her, I enjoyed my personal time and was genuinely happy for her. She texted and called me every chance she could but I wasn't really checking my phone too often. She kept telling me how much she missed me and I told her I missed her too, even though I didn't.

The day before her return I left on a family trip of my own for 2 weeks. I figured that I would probably start to miss her but I didn't. I barely checked my phone the entire time. One day she called me crying that she was missing me so much. I felt guilty that I wasn't missing her.

She wanted to meet me at the airport when I returned but I still felt like I needed personal time, so I told her that I needed a few days to settle back into routine. It's been 5 days since I got back from my trip and therefore it has been a little over a month since I've seen her. I have not missed her once.

Is this normal for relationships or is this a sign that I have lost interest/ fallen out of love?
I haven't seen my girlfriend for 1 month, and I don't really miss her. Does this mean I have fallen out of love?
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