We have been together for 3 years and it hasn't always been great due to me having many problems with anxiety and depression and he struggles with it?

[Anonymous]

In arguments and when he ends up being dramatic, he says things like I want to help you because i feel sorry for you because you haven't got any one to support you and he uses the phrases like i just want to save you, but at the same time its not making him happy dealing with the struggles of which i face in this relationship. He says he's here because he does feel sorry for me, do you think thats the only reason he's still here, when were good he will post photos of us and buy me little suprises but then when an argument occurs we just get into heated rows.

[Avicenna]

Show him some thanks- do something nice for him