Well I’ve really wanted 3 guys before, wanted to be with them for a long time but that never matured you know? I have actually LOVED once and it’s a mature, beautiful kind of love
Only twice. I’m in love with my current boyfriend and I was in love with my first boyfriend. I most definitely love my current boyfriend more than I ever loved my first boyfriend.
I would have to say twice, maybe a third. This last one is fresh and we were together for 4 years and i tried so hard. But I have poor, shitty luck with everything... So eh one step at a time...
I don't know. Shit is confusing. Recently after a few years I felt love for someone and the first thing that came to my mind was to make it stop and second thing was to tell her. It's just so confusing for me.
Three times... Once to a woman I was too immature to get my shit together for, 2nd was the one who broke my heart, 3rs was the woman who helped build me back up and showed me what it was like to give more that you take.
It really depends on how you define it. I think I fall in love pretty easily, though. Mainly because I'm not averse to love. I'm not scared of it. It just seems like a natural thing to me.
Yea no thats not it at all 😬 but if it makes you feel better i’ll let you have it. Like for example, i could be falling for someone. The moment he really jacks up? Im done falling in love. So i didn't technically fall in love. I was close but nope
A few times in high school and with my ex when we were dating last year. However there's one guy that I have truly fallen in love with that I'm currently dating! I love you @Trooper205! ❤
Three times first girlfriend cheated on me second girl we were together and she moved away due to military issues third time married and have been together for 27 years!
Because I think love is love. I think you can have different types of relationships and feel different levels of love for a person, but that's it. So knowing that, I don't think "Love" and "In love" are two different things. They are different relationships where you desire different things from a person that you love, and so the love that you feel changes. My point being that I don't think you can just say "This is this, and that is that" with love. I got what you meant though. I think ^^
I was in love with my fiancé who was killed in an auto accident 2 weeks before our wedding. That was 20+ years ago. I have yet to have that feeling of “love” since then.
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I have been in love 3 times.
I have only loved one person tho
Oh wow backwards for me. I've loved more but been in love with few
Well I’ve really wanted 3 guys before, wanted to be with them for a long time but that never matured you know?
I have actually LOVED once and it’s a mature, beautiful kind of love
Oh yea i def know :)
Only twice. I’m in love with my current boyfriend and I was in love with my first boyfriend. I most definitely love my current boyfriend more than I ever loved my first boyfriend.
I can tell :)
I would have to say twice, maybe a third. This last one is fresh and we were together for 4 years and i tried so hard. But I have poor, shitty luck with everything... So eh one step at a time...
She probably just wasn't the one. Why do you think your luck affected it?
I don't know. Shit is confusing. Recently after a few years I felt love for someone and the first thing that came to my mind was to make it stop and second thing was to tell her. It's just so confusing for me.
Can I talk to about something in private Desi?
Ok yea
Three times... Once to a woman I was too immature to get my shit together for, 2nd was the one who broke my heart, 3rs was the woman who helped build me back up and showed me what it was like to give more that you take.
Nice. Sounds like stuff i been through
About 5 times I would say. Unfortunately, from their side it was either a no or they had someone :-(
I hate when that happens
Me as well. On some occasions I had big hopes an felt a click but in became a no :-(
Twice? My current boyfriend now and this guy when I was in like tenth grade, and then I realized what 'in love' is.
How did u realize
It's weird, you just feel like, like you just know: this is the person.
4 I guess... I don't really fall for someone that easily.
I fall easily but i dont become “in love” easily
One time, it was great feeling but it didn't work out, she didn't want a relationship
Awww :(
Twice, first time it was just a teen thing, now second time I don't even know what it is in reality, I'm confused.
Yea I've been there lol
It really depends on how you define it. I think I fall in love pretty easily, though. Mainly because I'm not averse to love. I'm not scared of it. It just seems like a natural thing to me.
Yea but fall in love and being in love are diffeent too
@DizzyDesii How so?
Fall is almost there. In love is there
But once you fall in love, you're in love. So you're there.
Lol nahh but we’ll leave it at that
Because you know I'm right. Lol. My logic is airtight!
Yea no thats not it at all 😬 but if it makes you feel better i’ll let you have it. Like for example, i could be falling for someone. The moment he really jacks up? Im done falling in love. So i didn't technically fall in love. I was close but nope
Ohh. You must fall very slowly, then. There must be a low level of gravity on your planet.
I fall fast but that doesn't mean im in love. When im in love, im willing to die for you, compromise, sacrifice, all of the above
@DizzyDesii Then at what point does that transition take place for you? And why aren't you willing to sacrifice in the very beginning?
If im falling, im still getting to know them. Being in love is when i feel like i know all i need to know, and accepting everything about them
Oh. Then what makes you begin to fall?
Feeling like i met my twin... someone just like me personality. But they also gotta be hot. Not outta my league but like cute
Ah, okay. So you're saying you "feel" like they're your twin/soulmate. But you don't know for a fact yet.
No in saying based off what i know so far has ne falling in love. Once i learn all i need to know then im either in love or have fallen out of love
That's what I'm saying, too!
Oh ok. Im confused and tryna multitask and sucking at it apparently 😂
Lol. I think we just disagreed at first but then we discussed it and ended up agreeing in the end.
If only more disagreements could go this way haha then GAG would be a better “advice” site 👍👍
Haha. 👍
A few times in high school and with my ex when we were dating last year. However there's one guy that I have truly fallen in love with that I'm currently dating! I love you @Trooper205! ❤
Ahhh so its you! So happy for y'all 👍👍 he's a good one. You’ll be the princess leia to his star trooper i assume 😂
I've never been in love before I'm only in the lust phase.
Nothing wrong with that
Three times first girlfriend cheated on me second girl we were together and she moved away due to military issues third time married and have been together for 27 years!
Well glad 3rd time was the charm
I’ve loved many people over the years, but not in a singular fashion
What do u mean not in a singular fashion?
I love more than one person in a romantic way, I don’t limit itself to a single person or treat it as a single event.
Ahhh when i do that, its usually called a love triangle haha
Lol.
I think you're simplifying it a bit, but I think I'd say twice between the ages of 10 and 15. Ofc it never got that serious in either of those cases.
I simplified it how?
Because I think love is love. I think you can have different types of relationships and feel different levels of love for a person, but that's it. So knowing that, I don't think "Love" and "In love" are two different things. They are different relationships where you desire different things from a person that you love, and so the love that you feel changes. My point being that I don't think you can just say "This is this, and that is that" with love. I got what you meant though. I think ^^
It's all just theory though. I don't know shit ^^
Love and in love are levels. So im saying a lot of those dudes never made it past “love”. Only two made it to the highest level of IN LOVE
In that case I'm not sure that I've reached "In love". Where do you set the bar?
The stages are crush, falling for, love, falling in love, in love
Hmm... In that case I don't know that I could say I've ever been IN LOVE.
Then it’s best just to call it a crush then falling in love. I’ve only been in love twice. Others where just crushes, likes and infatuations
Nahh not for me
Twice once in pre school who brozoned me in high school other in graduation she told me I will get many girls like her now even she disappeared 😂
Loll
I think I was in love with both my exes till they pissed me off so much I started to not care about them.
Yes thats how i was (as mentioned above)! 🤣
I was in love with my fiancé who was killed in an auto accident 2 weeks before our wedding. That was 20+ years ago. I have yet to have that feeling of “love” since then.
I remember you mentioning this :(