Is this Transient mental condition or mental illness?

I am a military man, I am 25 years old... I have not met girls for a year or more and I have no longer the desire to speak to a girl or enter into a relationship... even if my thinking about women has differed and sometimes my conscience deplores me when I see my friends with their wives and I feels jealous.
Is this Transient mental condition or mental illness?
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