Would you leave your boyfriend or girlfriend if you found out that he/she is infertile?

[Anonymous]

[btbc92]

You should say that BEFORE becoming exclusive and dating. NOT AFTER. I rather want to know this, because hypothetically speaking. If I am dating, and I want kids, and I find out that person lied to me or kept that from me, I would be lying to say I wouldn't feel frustrated and resentful. There are people who don't want kids and or are willing to adopt. Date people, you are compatible with. If children are for your future, you will have it, if not, not. The only thing I will say, if God will heal and open the womb for children, or allow for sperm to be healthy again, anything is possible. But that person and the couple have to truly pray and desire that.

[BCA6010]

Been in this situation before, actually. In short, no, it didn't really affect how I felt about her. That's something that I don't have an issue looking past. Now, if a woman simply doesn't want to have kids even though she can... That's almost certainly going to be a deal-breaker.

She took it much harder than I did at first, then she seemed to get past it for a while until we broke up and I noticed she's been getting with single fathers ever since... Probably not a coincidence...

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't seek that relationship, but if I were in it I would hope, pray, and aid in a resolve. Some women get healed, others aren't as infertile as they thought. I would consider surrogacy, but ultimately I can't script God. I think it would be horrible to leave because of that, but personally I want kids, so I'm not looking for infertile women.

[thepirate18]

Now days infertile isn't a thing. There are a lot of ways to get pregnant and have a child of your own relationship. Science is somewhere. It would rather be good for them to enjoy pleasure without stress of having a child.

[MannMitAntworten]

Found out as in hiding it or found out because she shared it? Hiding it would be an issue. She shared it the chances are pretty damn low that I would not. If my last girlfriend learned she was and we were still together, definitely not.

[Cryptic-Game]

Yeah. Some women are scared to admit it and eventually tell you after you have been with them for 2 whole years or whatever. It is like a woman who was raped and she hides it from her man. I think the man has a right to know so he can decide.

[MannMitAntworten]

I never had a woman hide either. If they are hiding it from you... you have to ask yourself why they are not forth coming with you. I have never had a problem with my ladies opening up about some damn awful things. They always feel “safe” with me could be why, and zero judgement.

[egarcia1360]

No, that's not the end of the world. Adoption, IVF, and a surrogate mother are all options, probably along with others I don't even know about.

[ShortCircuit]

Nope, that would be an advantage, as far as I'm concerned.

[Kaneki05]

nope that's just me finding out she is more perfect for me

[_SOARER]

If I truly loved her, no
And i really want a family
Sure it's not idea but love and dedication is what matters most

[Drumlin2001]

No. We've had a son.. i could live with no more kids, would hit her hardest.

[asshole_]

Prob.

I HAVE to have a natural child, I'm a male, only child

[Unstoppable20]

No I wouldn't. If we both wanted kids, we would adopt.

[Crimsonstorm]

leave not but ask her permission to make a baby with someone else.

[TheFartSaver]

No, definitely not. There are other options.

[MrOracle]

Nope - that would be ideal in fact.

[Anonymous]

No-but it might be an issue for marriage

[Dchrls78104]

No. I'm a bit old for that.

[moonpie89]

Nope. That's a preference

[tjbyrd39]

Keep as main have side dishes tio

[Cryptic-Game]

If they hid it from me to start with, I would.

[Anonymous]

No why would I?