Girls, At what point of a relationship would you discuss reproduction?

[Anonymous]

I mean one that is ending in marriage. I wouldn't find it proper too early in the beginning, but I have a couple of bombshells. I never want to use contraceptives, I just want a natural amount of children, not striving for more or less. Some mate their whole lives and produce 1 child, others get 10+. Most of my neighbors had 6 kids, I don't think that a bad number, but I am not in control as humans do not create life. I would appreciate two sons and two daughters at the very least, but it is possible the woman I bind to will produce less. What is an appropriate time for this discussion?

[thegirlfromthething]

I’d prefer to know as soon as possible to see if we have the same goals and find out if the relationship is worth pursuing. But that could be off-putting to guys if we’re just getting to know each other and I already sound like I’m planning our future.

[Asker]

Legitimate concern, the basis of the question. Fianc'e feels to late, but that's me.

[Asker]

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