What types of qualities should a good girlfriend have?

[Flower7]

qualities of a good girlfriend?

[Quidthonian]

Non-smoker (100% not negotiable)
Communicative (keep regular communication with me, preferably over text)
Understand and respect my introvertness (one that gives me alone-time)
Be independent, have her own hobbies (to balance out my need to introvert out)
Intelligent (not necessarily academic, social and emotional intelligence is desired)
Educated (post-high-school)
Takes care of her body (but is not a builder. Healthy eating, healthy exercise. doesn't mind occasional cheesecake.)
Understands me (eccentric introvert, INTJ to be precise)
Knows that I need to be in control; that I will listen to her input.
Know what to do when I randomly release control to her.

I absolutely hate this argument:
Me: "What do you want to do next?"
She: "I'll go along with whatever you choose."
Me: * rolls eyes... and unpredictable response *
In that scene above, i got "tired" of thinking for both of us. I want to do something random, something spontaneous. ... and I get 'rejected'.

[Flower7]

You seem to be very sure about both who you are and what you're looking for. It's great that you know and understand yourself so well, especially your personality traits.

[RemoErdosain]

Loyalty, honesty, ability to openly express and discuss relationship issues without yelling or causing unnecessary drama. Loyalty, by the way, includes not having other back-up options ready to go in case things go south

[RemoErdosain]

I forgot respect. Respect is very important. Hopefully she's also loving, but with all those other qualities, if she isn't very affectionate, I'd still consider her a gem

[RemoErdosain]

Thanks for MHO!

[Reaperbot666]

my personal preferences would be

• respectful
• honest
• loyal
• enjoyable personality
• enjoyable attitude
• maintains herself physically, mentally and emotionally
• dresses in a more traditional and modest manner
• generally healthy
• likes how she looks

this works for most relationships really. for both sides either directly or indirectly. if your not willing to help. don't complain when your partner deals with it them self.

[Jjpayne]

Supportive, listening, a genuine desire to spend time with you and cares about your interests. And love you and that's just a friend 😊

A romantic relationship... I'd say similar things, supportive, encouraging, desires to be with you, is happy when with you, cares about your interests... I'd say the biggest difference here is intimacy. And that is important

[Flower7]

It is a good feeling when someone is happy to be in your presence.

[Jjpayne]

To me that's core to what relationships should be about

[indraniel]

I am 16, so I guess I dont have a opinion on that. But I guess, she should be understanding. She shouldn't interfere in your growth. She should probably like the way you are andshouldn't be too controlling.

[Flower7]

I agree that it's not good for someone to expect a person to change.

[Kurαȷ]

The qualities that every person should have are-
Common sense, capacity for rational thought, the ability to employ the scientific method and change one's opinion in face of contradictory evidence.
Character, personal accountability and, most importantly, strong adherence to one's own principles.

I think everything else, whether in romantic or other types of relationships, is up to everyone's subjective preference.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

1.) Great personality 2.) Be able to communicate3.) Loves to cuddle 4.) She doesn't base therelationship just on sex 5.) She loves to spendquality time together and

[MCheetah]

1. Don't be a bitch/feminist.
2. Don't cheat or mistreat your partner.
3. Know how to cook.

That's mostly it.

[Flower7]

That's a nice, concise list. Short and sweet.

[cgehr783]

Willingness to teach him things that normally u would be embarrassed to teach him. If he's ignorant about love relationships or sex tell him and don't fault him for it. I feel alone in these areas of my life and no matter what I do or learn, I feel like my efforts are never enough.

[ThiccBoai]

Be herself, be strong and have somewhat the same view on the world I guess.

[Flower7]

That would make things easier, for both of you to think the same way.

[ThiccBoai]

Yeah definitely!!

[Torari]

1. Loves life
2. Has an unusual, but not gross hobby
3. Wants to fuck my brains out on a daily basis
4. Takes care of herself physically and mentally
5. Is supportive

I realize these are totally unrealistic expectations. Women like this don't exist. But a man can dream.

[Flower7]

These traits don't seem very unrealistic to me.

[Torari]

You haven't dated women.

[Koalamate]

That was rude bro.

[Torari]

Who cares?

[Koalamate]

The women you say don't exist.

[Unit1]

Faithful, loving and making her own money.

and if she's also beautiful (i find most women to be beautiful), it's a win!

[Flower7]

It's a really good thing that you see most women as attractive. That makes it easier for you to find someone you're interested in, since you aren't too picky.

[Unit1]

I know right? What can i say? I really love women ❤ i love looking at them, hugging them, talking to them, going out with them etc...

I forgot to mention, that i won't tolerate smoking or password sharing on my personal devices for basic privacy reasons but i think this won't be an issue.

[finallylettinggo]

Intelligence, sense of humor, loyalty, honesty, and a mischievous side.

[Flower7]

Mischief can be fun.

[Brendan824]

Ask long as she's honest open minded and willing to work through the hard times that's all one could ask for

[Flower7]

Being able to work through hard times is a really important quality for relationships to have. Unfortunately, very few people seem to have that ability.

[Brendan824]

Yea it sucks

[madgoat]

Be honest , be loving, be warm, be respectful, be nuturing, don't be a push over, don't make it a competition.

[Koalamate]

Add the abilitie to respectfully pull you in line and you got gold.

[Evil_Chuck]

A good girlfriend is sensible, loyal, and accepting.

[Flower7]

By accepting, do you mean like being willing to accept gifts?

[sensible27]

Rational, for if she's that maybe other qualities can be extracted from it...

[AustinMan]

Compassion, patience, self care, and intelligence. Politically liberal.

[JPrez]

A kind heart, loyalty, interest in their boyfriend and appearance.

[scorpy04]

She must be romantic enjoying cudles kiss open with her feelings trustworthy genuine and a non cheater Must have her own mind Feel an equal Show affection

[scorpy04]

@flower thank you

[COMMODOREII]

Caring, loving, loves hugs, loves nature, loves music, is an artist, is happy when she sees me, thinks about me all day as I think about her, smart, athletic, loves to bake. 😎💓🌹🌹

[nodnol32]

Trustworthy
Loving
Caring
Supportive
Loyal