"Men use money to attract women but hate gold diggers and women use their bodies to attract men but hate to be viewed as sex objects." Do you agree?

[Anonymous]

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[Not_Average]

We don’t use money to attract women. Having money equates to having power- and power is simply attractive within itself.


The guys who actually have money don’t at least. That is... unless you’re a celebrity figure, but most wealthy men are pretty frugal, and are persistent with self development.


It’s realized that if you have to utilize your money in an attempt to attract a woman- you’re going to start out the basis of a relationship off a shallow void. It’s also realized that a woman who seeks you out because of your money will also be a massive financial liability. One thing wealthy men hate to do is to be pressured into buying liabilities instead of things that make then more money.


Most entrepreneurs go bankrupt at least once. A woman who seeks you out only because your money will leave you when your broke. This is why we don’t like gold diggers. The relationship stems off the ability to produce materialistic items.


The reality is the richest guy you most likely know drives an economical car, wears regular clothes, and lives a regular life. The only difference is he chooses to spend his money on on assets that make him more money. The assets pay for what most would consider a normal life on the exterior.


The other reality is that most guys who flaunt money in an attempt to attract women- are men who are high income, but net worth broke. They earn a hefty 100k salary and contribute minimally to their 401k with some fund they don’t even know if. They live at or above their means driving the nice cars, living in the nice house, and essentially live for the day. Little do they realize how close they are to financial ruin.


Typically how it goes is women seek out guy #2 because they are flashier. Then the marriage ends in divorce because it was the money that got her in wedlock. Then she finds out how financially unsavvy he actually is when they’re earning a high income- yet still living paycheck to paycheck.

[0112358]

Sure. Most of us want to be wanted in every way by our partners. We want them to think we are hot, funny, competent, fascinating and admirable.

on the other hand we use what we can to attract them then feel bad if they don’t love our weaker points. Sure at the top you can say money or looks. But it goes beyond that. We will start moaning about “would they still like me if my ass was worse/I was fat/I was shorter/ I earned less/ I wasn’t as nice doing them favours/blah blah.”

it’s very valid to want to connect intellectually/emotionally/physically. It’s neurotic to be upset about them liking our good points.

[btbc92]

Yep. That's why I always say let those kinds of people destroy each other. Perfect for each other.

[Samoht_Sirrom1]

I don't date, because I'm totally undesirable to the opposite sex.

[Noodle_fan]

well some of them , it is true , we have billions of people , i refuse to believe that every men and women are same

[Unit1]

So true it hurts!

But how else would we attract a mate?

[Twalli]

Not that this applies to everyone, but the quote is true for those that do such.

[Mikelaughs]

Have you ever been in those situations personally?

[Asker]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

just one girl had courage to accept it