"Dating a guy because of his financial status, Is also called prostitution." Do you agree with this?

[Sam_The_Savage]

I'm totally agree. What you think peps. ?

[Anonymous]

Yep absolutely. Funny I’ve seen girls share they cunt “save the date” meme that says “Gold Digger: like a hooker but smarter” and it has drawing of a woman looking at a diamond ring while smiling.

I guess some guys do this because: 1) for optics it makes them look better than just getting a random hooker and/or 2) they want to fool themselves that the girl really has feelings for him. Deep down they know it’s bullshit but they can indulge the fantasy.

Anyway people take advantage of each other in dating all the time. It can be about other things beyond money and sex.

I guess if both sides are transparent about what they really want it’s an okay arrangement. A 60 year old man knows damn well he will never in all likelihood get a hot 19 year old girl to fall in love with him. If the 19 year girl (who is a legal adult) really is that lazy to tolerate the discomfort of being banged by a grandpa then that’s on her. She’s a legal adult and not a victim. At least not in western society.

[rc321]

I would disagree even as a guy depending on the context. As with other parts of dating we look for certain traits, whether it be someone's looks, social status and in cases finance. We look for a mate looking towards the future, if your partner doesn't financially look stable one would look for the hardship they would have to endure. Same if someone is not healthy and etc. That is not to say there aren't anyone out there looking for someone soley based on a individuals financial status but that can go both ways as I have know friends who date women with better finances.

[BlackBeauty90]

How is it prostitution?

I mean what woman, except for a prostitute/slut/easy cow, wouldn't want a man that she knows can provide. Hmm.. What good, except being a doorstop, is a guy who doesn't have a job? Hmm... Is she supposed to pay the bills, put food in his fat gob & raise the kids too? Hmm...

It's instinct to want a man who has something to his name. Otherwise, a woman might as well just buy a dog. Not only is it easier to train, not only does it typically have better manners and may even contribute more to the household (e. g. guarding the house, keeping away pests, etc.), but you can also legally sterilize it so who cares if it fucks half the neighborhood (no bastards to worry about), etc. than some slackjaw loser.

[Malik00]

You're that one girl who had fun mocking the "Loser" boy in high school and then tried to marry him once he made it in the world acting like you were doing him a favor weren't you?

[BlackBeauty90]

@Malik00 Hardly. What I said, however, is reality. Sluts, whores, prostitutes, etc. will settle for someone who doesn't contribute to the household because the dumb cows can't get anyone of value.

[Malik00]

Then why would any self respecting man want anything to do with a woman who doesn't bring anything to the table other then her... less then steller looks?

[BlackBeauty90]

@Malik00 ROFL. Dumbfuck. See that's what separates losers (aka you) who only end up with prostitutes, sluts, whores from men that decent women actually want.

[Malik00]

I'd rather have a slut then a golddigger.

[BlackBeauty90]

@Malik00 But then that proves your standards are trash. You want a woman who only has looks, no decent job or education, so you'll end up with a whore that's a golddigger. ROFL.

[Sam_The_Savage]

I agree with her... if she has jobs. Education & career. Than she deserved to know about guys financial status.

[BlackBeauty90]

@sam_the_savage - thank you. There's a difference between a leech aka golddigger (both men & women) and someone who is looking for a decent partner not some "loser" to be blunt that'll contribute nothing of real value to the household/her life/potential children.

[Sam_The_Savage]

So true... love & feelings are fine but for serious long-term relationship financial status matters. You can't go to grocery store n say to shopkeeper hey I have so much love give me everything at free. Lol. You're 100% right.

[Malik00]

So a girl enjoys having sex a lot, so what? its better then someone who uses sex as a bargaining chip.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Bruh change mindset.

[BlackBeauty90]

@Malik00 You said > So a girl enjoys having sex a lot, so what? its better then someone who uses sex as a bargaining chip. < you are rather unintelligent aren't you. Enjoy your whores & sluts. That's all you'll ever get... no decent woman would want you.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Relax girl...

[Malik00]

A slut has more integrity and honor then you ever will.

[DollAlone]

How could it be considered prostitution unless sex is involved? Dating doesn't automatically mean sex. Some people actually still take their time and get to know someone before jumping into bed together. And if dating someone wealthy is prostitution is dating someone poor considered "charity work"?

[kmg9150]

Pretty much everything can be considered prostitution in its simplest form. Whats the difference between doing so for money as opposed for "love" and attention


We sell our bodies to our employers (maybe notnsexually, but physical for sure.


I think if they are both aware that her intentions are financial, I dont see their is a problems.. "Love" is overrated and overused. Most all relationship of a intimate/partner basis are entered into because one hopes to self satisfy through looks, skill set, emotional attention/support. Its I want to be with... because I like this or their great at that which would... in my life is how most people think about when considering a partner... but they also need have something that person would also want.

[TheorionMage]

"No"... 'Quid Pro Quo' (THIS for THAT)
If 'this' is 'prostitution' then EVERY TIME ANYONE ENGAGES IN EFFORTS on any other person or agency's behalf, that they would ordinarily NOT FREELY ELECT TO DO without compensation, for their efforts,
We're ALL 'whores'!

Pee-raise Chee-zus!

[JackSmy]

@sam_the_savage I this is a STUPID, and SEXIST, BIASED question, unfairly judging women, and in this time of inclusion, Equality, and Diversity, it seems like you are just being a DICK!
Are you just angry, because you cannot afford to have one?
If you were a millionaire, I'm sure you would have all kinds of women hanging on your arms, and wanting to ride in your limo!!
Get there, make the money, and then you can be the dick that you are judging!

[ZackBan]

I think it falls on guys to make that call for themselves. When a rich guy knowingly lets a gold digger in just because she's sexy he deserves to be robbed blind. Much like actual prostitution it's not something that is forced and it will always exist as long as there are paying customers

[Miristheiss]

Kind of, yeah.

I mean if she wouldn't have anything to do with him otherwise and then she'll get with him just because of his job/finances. She's pretty much a whore.

I mean if she already liked him and was interested and then she finds out he is successful it could just be "icing on the cake".

But if she'd have nothing to do with him... but he's got money and now she will. She's a disgusting sex worker.

[Kaamraj]

Prostitution is sex for commercial reasons. So no it's not prostitution. However, it's gold digging and hypergamy. And men should realize this behavior and only date such women for the sex. Meaning, if you want a lifestyle upgrade then you're going to have to pay for it.

[Cathy7734]

Why can't it just be her preference?
There's nothing wrong with preferring a man or woman who is financially successful.
What about men who will only date women with big breasts? Is that prostitution or just preference?

[_Conejo_]

preference. We are not going to change definitions just because you happen to fit in or don't like them.
he/his/fish anyone?

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

No, it's called hypergamy. Everyone has reasons to why they are with someone whether it's sex, money, personality, looks, or whatever. Just make sure it's worth it at the end. Sometimes they eventually fall in love.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Well said. There is always give n take.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Correct.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Yo... you're more realstic than others.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Some people like to see things from a different lens even though their lens got shit on it

[Sam_The_Savage]

Yes babe. I'm became your fan.
I need your autograph. Lol 😂

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

AHAHAHAH 😂

[Sam_The_Savage]

See I make you smile.
You can kiss me If you want. I don't mind. ❤️😂

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

*Virtually blows kiss * thanks 😂

[Sam_The_Savage]

Wow I'm start flying to the moon...😍😍😍

Thanks sweety you made my day ❤️❤️🌹

[weeee]

I love how fast this convo devolved

[_Conejo_]

@weeee this is a cringe tinder conversation

[LindsayR07]

Sure, it may be akin to prostitution, but remember the idea of marriage for love is a new one. Until the turn of the 20th century, women would marry for status and money, trying to "marry up" and often this was arranged long before the couple ever met... Many times at birth.

It's pretty much been the standard throughout human history, to choose romantic partners based on power (money = power) though I will say the "marry for love" experiment seems to be a good one.

[Keenisha]

I thought it was called gold digging. A prostitute doesn't care how his or her client makes their money or how much their net worth is as long as she gets paid in full!

[Sam_The_Savage]

Good point girl.

[_Conejo_]

it's because this non-explicit prostitute is on a long-term contract, like in sugar daddy, dedicates to only one, but it's still a big B

[Dinklex3]

That's not the same as having sex for money.
You could have a high "financial status " as well and just want a partner the same as you. Wouldn't make you a prostitute.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Great... but why you're wearing mask on gag. No covid Here relaxed. Lemme see your face. Lol

[Dinklex3]

My face is none of your business. If I want to chose this as my profile picture, I'm free to do so.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Okies. Damn serious woman.

[DWornock]

From a certain viewpoint most all women including married women are prostitutes because they exchange sex for money. Married women don't stay with husbands that don't support them and their children. The differences are, they accept money from one man in exchange for sex while the typical prostitute accepts money from many men. And, sex in marriage is socially acceptable and lawful, sex with the typical prostitute is not.

[Ellie_in_LA]

Getting married and having a family is good. It’s good for children and society. Dude, re-read your answer and rethink it. Choosing to have monogamous sex within a marriage is ethically and morally superior to prostitution. Prostitution is a scourge on society, especially the way it’s practiced today. Pornography and OnlyFans weaken men. They exploit men’s loneliness. And there’s this horrible narrative being pushed in our society called “toxic masculinity.” What that has accomplished is make men feel vilified for natural characteristics like: risk-taking, adventurousness, problem solving, and attraction to beautiful women. Now instead of courting a wife or longterm partner, men channel their “toxic” longings into hours of online porn and simp for women on OnlyFans. Wanting to have sex with beautiful women is evolution’s way of making men find mates and form families. Women have characteristics that make them want to nurture their families. They tend to like safety and security, which may make them want a mate who has a lot do financial resources or potential for getting resources. The movies sell a whole “meet cute” and true love narrative, but the truth is most men and women find each other attractive for a variety of reasons and form cooperative relationships for the purposes of raising a family.

I also think you’re wrong that wives are women who exchange sex for money. I don’t know any women who are unemployed, but I know quite a few men who don’t work and live with their parents. Women work. I think you’re whole outlook is wrong and sad. Re-think it. Family is beautiful and benefits society. Wives and husbands help each other through life and raise children. Prostitution just turns women into sentient fleshlights and a prostitute will never take care of you when you’re sick, give you a shoulder massage after a hard day, or cook your family a big Thanksgiving dinner. You’ll never watch a prostitute nurse your baby and feel like the richest man on earth.

[Jonny59]

my parents and I are financially insured and even my kids even my kids their kids like it
we don't have to worry about money that's all, my problem is when im dating im trying to keep my financial status and anything about what we have so I want to date a girl who loves ME not my money because so many gold diggers are out there and... its sad I mean yes we have money but as someone who have almost everything im not genuinely happy for many things so even if ur poor you can be happy

[Titanya]

Nope, soliciting sex for money is prostitution.

Dating Is spending time with and socializing with someone, it doesn't pertain to or have to include sex.

[lisalikes]

It is the oldest profession in the world. Who cares.
If she is happy, and he is happy,
"Cover me with kisses, baby
Cover me with love
Roll me in designer sheets
I'll never get enough"

[Anonymous]

Interesting point. Is every traditional woman a prostitute since traditionally women seek men with good financial status since only such men can provide housewifes?
I have seen guys who say that men's pride time is in their 30s because at this age they are financially successful according these guys and think they can get young with their money and think this is something good.
You make sense.

[Opinion Owner]

Now traditional women are prostitutes because they also expect from their men to pay their dates but also working or career oriented women are feminazis
🦧
I dont get guys on gag anymore

[bamesjond0069]

Its because you talk to two different kinds of men. Generally there are alphas and betas. Each wants the opposite. Alphas tend to work and take charge and want more traditional things while betas tend to prefer a woman who works and takes a more equal role. Asking a beta how to get an alpha or vice versa is going to lead to the exact situation you're talking about. you're 22 so some mild mannered low earning beta sort of man you might know is going to say "id love if a woman had a career. Thats not fair i have to pay for everything" while some 30 year old go getter is going to say "ugh career women suck, i have a house and 2 cars and money to spare please i need someone who will make my house a home and wants to be a mom" and there you are. Hopefully not confused any more.

[Ellie_in_LA]

@bamesjond0069 this is the best take on this question.

[bamesjond0069]

@Ellie_in_LA thanks!

[silvermoon84]

I never looked at it from that perspective so I’m not sure I’d call it prostitution but I consider the women who do that to be of the same class as the men who use women and lead us on for sex. No use for either one.

[ralphphilip83]

I agree. But I also think there is nothing wrong with consensual , adult prostitution. There is no moral angle to it. Centuries of religious dogma have attached a taboo status to it, but we in the 21st century should move past that.

[kyleelyn199723]

Basically yes because most women that chase after money like that will literally let a guy abuse them or treat them essentially like a prostitute because he knows she’s chasing after the money.

[Grubhub]

Yes, good answer. Women always say looks don’t matter personality does. They’ll never say cash don’t matter. The more beautiful the woman, the sexier body the more demands she’ll have into a man

[Anonymous]

Yes, of course!
Whether you want love or just pussy, you'll end up spending money either way.

Unless she pays for herself, in which case she's a keeper.