What does being exclusive mean to you?

[wonderingaboutboys]

Everyone has different interpretations of this, different rules, etc.

I'm curious what you would constitute as being "exclusive" with another person.

[centerline]

not dating or sleeping with someone else... not spending time with a "rival" or spending money on them... but everything that I have to give in the name of love and companionship is given exclusively to the one I love...
how can it be described as anything else?

[wonderingaboutboys]

this is beautiful

[Wise4myage]

Exclusive means, one on one or two people choosing not to date anyone else. Their is no other interpretation.

[DizzyDesii]

in my opinion, Exclusive means others know we’re talking and we’re only talking to eachother. We’re on the verge of becoming official boyfriend/girlfriend.

[wonderingaboutboys]

Makes sense... So in your opinion, what is the difference between being exclusive (on the verge of becoming official boyfriend/girlfriend) versus being officially boyfriend/girlfriend--besides the labels, what else changes between the two of you?

[DizzyDesii]

Its easier for me to end things with someone when we’re not official. If we’re official then i’d do everything possible to make sure we stay together forever. Its hard ass work lol. Its like the superbowl while exclusivity is just the playoffs lol

[wonderingaboutboys]

Ahahaha great way to put it, this makes so much sense, thank you!

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho :)

[wonderingaboutboys]

Thanks for your amazing answer :)

[DreamCatchcer]

It's pretty simple. Sex only between you two.

Spending time with other guys only for a short amount of time.

Pretty simple

[Younghungguy17]

Exclusive is when your not talking to other about romantic or sexual things and your exclusively into that person and in a monogamous relationship

[bklynbadboy1]

It means just being with one person and that 1 person just being with you

[OddBeMe]

Not fucking other people. We all mildly flirt or look at attractive people.

[Anonymous]

That you’re only going to date each other and be devoted to each other

[Dongtai]

We’re not dating or having sex with other people.

[pizzalovershouse]

To nean your telling a girl your onky seeing them

[Twalli]

Not looking for or dating other people.

[GreenGold1992]

You're with them and no one else

[Dave31989]

Not having an "friends with benefits" label

[mrgspoter]

No idea is it like ppv or something

[gandolph3]

just you and your SO