I've been seeing a guy for around 3 months. Last month I asked where we were with seeing each other and he told me he likes where this is going and hasn't been seeing anyone else and wants this to be exclusive. I agreed with him.
We have been seeing each other around 1 - 2 times a week and have slept with each other.
We haven't officially met each others friends and he didn't really invite me to any of his birthday celebrations. We made plans to do something separately which I initiated.
We have each other on social media but he's not much of a texter so he'll drop me a text usually to make plans or around once a day. I asked him and he said he didn't really like texting that much but likes me texting him.
We don't really have nicknames for each other yet either.
I'm not too sure what exclusive without being boyfriend/girlfriend means because my ex asked me to be his girlfriend one month in.
Is this moving at a normal pace or is this more casual than serious dating?
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to me it means you're not going to see anyone else, but if you have any questions or concerns talk to him
I feel like I want more progress, is it okay to bring it up to him a month after being exclusive?
you've been seeing each other for 3 months. i think it is appropriate to know exactly what's up. look, sometimes people get worried about scaring someone away from asking questions, but if this guy is right for you, after 3 months, he'll talk to you. in the case that it does bother him, that would probably be a bad sign. maybe figure out for sure what you want first if you can? talk and see if it matches. as far as the texting thing, there is another possibility--some people just like space. you guys may just have a few minor differences, and if you talk about it, you'd undertand and feel better :)
i mean, also keep in mind i am a failure at relationships myself, so trust your own heart. but don't let worry guide you :). i think 1 or 2 months is like time for the relationship talk
Thank you so much. I guess what I really want is more communication to feel more connected to him, I want to do more couple stuff together, I want nicknames too. I want the cute stuff
Then you know what you want. Good! It is OK to ask. My guess is he will make you feel happy after your talk :). But if he doesn't, then he isn't right for you. You have to honor your wants. I hope everything works out! I bet it will--exclusive is an important step already.
you are already girl friend