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Given the pros and cons of confessing my feelings I developed for a friend, should I tell her?

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Pros of telling her
- It will be a weight off my shoulders.
- I’ll know the answer and it will give me closure.

Cons of telling her
- I could lose a good friend and even if the friendship survives, it will be changed in unrepairable ways.
- I could be labelled a creep and I could make her feel uncomfortable.
- She might think I used friendship as a back door to a relationship. (I didn’t, I’ve been friends with her for 4 years and I only developed feelings for her recently)
- Were in a lockdown and in the middle of a pandemic.
- She probably already knows.
Yes you should tell her
No you shouldn’t tell her
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Given the pros and cons of confessing my feelings I developed for a friend, should I tell her?
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