Ok.. whats the deal with boyfriends or husband's spanking their girls, when she's "being stubborn, defiant, argumentive, testing or being physical?

[Anonymous]

This is not a troll post, but it has happened to me in quite a few relationships, in the past and now where I have been spanked by my partner for what he calls bratty behavior...
I'm just trying to figure out if this is actually normal... I'm a little pissed off about it and think its super unfair

Its normal

Its not normal

It happens more often than not

Its abusive

He has no right to spank her unless she consents

Spanking is better than hitting a girl so its a good alternative as it happens to little kids

He doesn't need consent to defend himself

Updates

+1 y

I'm trying to prove a point here...

Updates

+1 y

Okay, so I am admitting that maybe I shouldn't have slapped his face or hid his stuff... but sometimes these things happen and I deal with things in an immature way.
Anyway , my point was to prove to him that men shouldn't be spanking their girlfriend/wives / partners and that it is not a normal thing that happens.

And my poll proves just that, that he was in the wrong

Thanks all!

[Anonymous]

He is hitting you hard? When my man spanked me, I was kinda expecting it. He threated me a couple of times before he actually do it. It hurt and I cried. I hated the fact that I couldn't get up of his lap because he was holding me so tight.

[Hangry22]

The guy is trying to dominate you by making you obedient. It's a kink. They want you to be under their control

[Asker]

Yeah, but he doesn't do it all the time and hardly ever. . He's actually really kind and caring except when I'm passing him off on purpose .. I just thing its an unfair reaction

[Hangry22]

It's unfair. But that's what most dom-sub movies show. Dominant guys think spanking is the way for their bratty gfs. I think he's just playing with you in a sexual fun way. But if you feel like physical assault, take necessary actions

[Asker]

he's not playing. He says if I piss him off on purpose, he will spank me for it so don't do it
I don't like being told what I can and can't do!

[Hangry22]

Well if you go against him, he will spank you more harder. Abstain from sex or ignore him to teach a lesson

[Asker]

Yes! Gonna try that hahaha.
🤨😏

[Unit1]

I have no idea why anyone would do that 🤔🤔🤔 Crazy males I guess.

[lanadelrey25]

Um bc it's sexy duhhhhhh

[havingfun101]

The natural order is to be maintained.

[Asker]

What does that even mean

[havingfun101]

Act right or get smacked right, dummy.

[Asker]

Wow. Apparently, you must be single

[Asker]

I guess a good old face slapping is perfect for you.. or perhaps someone to piss you off on purpose... that should set the order right, primate.

[havingfun101]

By choice. We all know women like a man who knows he's better than them.

[Asker]

Let me guess... you're the one who selected "normal"

[havingfun101]

Normal is boring, but it's all you know.

[Asker]

You don't know your ass from a hole in the ground

[havingfun101]

My ass is very strong and comfortable, unlike a hole in the ground, so ha!

[Asker]

What are you implying...

[havingfun101]

I forgot to oversimplify; I'm not used to girls, you know? Spanking good, keep dummy in line, make relationship tolerable.

[Asker]

Oh, pardon me. I didn't realize you were gay. So your ass probably is tough and a pot hole in the ground

[havingfun101]

Pure psychological projection; I'm attracted to women, you just don't want to hear the truth, your ego is too fragile.

[Asker]

No way I just think it's dumb to be spanking your girlfriend/wife borderline to tears how stupid

[havingfun101]

They don't listen to words; they talk a lot but so do other women, so getting through the noise and irrational feelings... well, you get my drift.

[Asker]

The fact that you call women a "they" is your problem right there

[havingfun101]

Oh, do you prefer the term 'feemale?' Is it just me or are you cruising for a bruising?

[Asker]

Ok... I'm a little more innocent where I have no idea what crusin for a bruising means

[havingfun101]

It means that your backsass will have me lightin' up them hams, that's what!

[Asker]

That's not even English

[havingfun101]

You're not even English!

[Asker]

😒 I was actually looking for real advice here.
Thanks anyway

[havingfun101]

No you weren't asking for advice in a "what's the deal with" question; you were venting and I like to play mess around. It's not my fault you're hankering for a spankering!

[Asker]

Well I was trying to prove to my husband that its not normal for them to give their partner a spanking...

[havingfun101]

You bungled that one!

[Asker]

Yeah. Well my poll says otherwise

[havingfun101]

My polls bigger than yours?

[havingfun101]

Update: "girls can hit boys but boys can't hit girls."

[Asker]

I'm just saying spanking is not a normal behavior

[havingfun101]

But slapping is? You're, as a woman, a complete hypocrite.

[Asker]

No, I already admitted i was wrong. And also, when I threatened it to him, he said "do it, I dare you"
So I did.
So anyway., whatever. Its happened to me before I just think its weird and dumb for an adult to get spanked Nd it was also embarrassing and made me even angrier

[havingfun101]

Then it's a silly question by an average silly girl who needs her butt spanked regularly, because she's silly.

[Asker]

Pfft. Whatever.

[havingfun101]

That's right.

[Iron_Man]

Didn’t know that was going on

[Asker]

Its happened to me with a few different boyfriends , in the past and now my husband spanked me bc I accidentally slapped his face.. like I didn't mean to. It just kind of happened...

[Iron_Man]

What is bc?

[Asker]

Because

[Iron_Man]

Are they real spankings or just kidding around

[Asker]

Well I slapped his face and he told me I better not... and I did.. because I didn't like being told what I can and can't do... so I mustered up the courage and did it... basically to prove to myself that I'm strong-willed... and anyway, he flipped me over his lap and spanked me for it.. and it hurt and infeelmits super unfair because he's a foot taller and 100lbs on me...

[Iron_Man]

Honestly I believe that’s fair because you actually slapped him

[Asker]

Yeah, but he's bigger than me.. and it was embarrassing and I only slapped him , where he spanked my butt like at least 5 times or so
Its made me so mad and defiant.

[Asker]

You sound just like him 😕

[Iron_Man]

Maybe I am him

[Iron_Man]

Lol just kidding

[Asker]

Meaning what.
So you agree that its ok to spank a girl? Well if you are him, I'm going to hide your stuff for spanking me, so have fun trying to find it

[Asker]

Seriously... you are justifying his behavior... I'm trying to prove something here to him...😡

[Iron_Man]

Well you shouldn’t of hit me in the face you insulted me so you get disciplined back

[Asker]

You're not even him because I just asked him if he went on here and I happen to know that you are not him
This isn't even funny.
He spanks me , hard, when I purposely piss him off. ... this wouldn't be happening if he didn't act this way

[Iron_Man]

Why would I tell you that in person

[Asker]

Lol. You're not helping my cause of proving that spanking me is abuse. If anything , you're making him be a martyr and ill teach him a lesson to prove a point

[Iron_Man]

If anything you abused him he just defended himself

[Asker]

Wow. Figures you'd say that
One tiny face slap or hiding his stuff does not hurt nearly as hard as the spanking he gave me. 😠🥺😢🤨

[Iron_Man]

You say it was a little slap but if I talk to the guy I’m sure it was a big slap when you assault another human being don’t be surprised if you get discipline back it’s pretty simple do the math , hold yourself accountable

[Asker]

Yeah, well hebspqnks me if I hide his stuff when I'm pissed off at him.
I can't believe you're justifying a guy spanking his girl! Typical. If you were here, I'd slap you too

[Iron_Man]

Then I would be forced to spank you

[Iron_Man]

You don’t touch human beings and hit them in the face. I think you might be trolling here

[Asker]

I am not trolling. This is real to me. I would have rather he slapped my face back then spank me.
I am trying to prove to him that his reaction is not normal. And he has no right to spank me to tears over a lousy face slap

[Iron_Man]

You both need to go to family counseling and talk to mediator

[Iron_Man]

Just because you think that way doesn’t make it right

[Iron_Man]

You Have no business slapping your husband

[Asker]

We don't need a mediator... we actually have an amazing relationship... he's just decided to spank me if I piss him off on purpose
I was trying to prove to him that, that is not normal and he can't do that to me... but its not exactly going my way... he just reacted that way and I am shocked that he did it.
He says if I'm going to continue to be a brat, thats what he will do.
So as long as I'm not being an "pain " on purpose, we have no issue.
However, my issue now is that he spanked me and I'm having trouble dealing with that

[Asker]

You are right. I shouldn't have slapped him... I just don't agree or like the way he responded.

[Iron_Man]

Ok good

[Asker]

K now you know who

[Iron_Man]

Huh?

[Anonymous]

Its a playful show of dominance

[Asker]

He doesn't seem to be playing.. he said he's serious. If I'm going to act that way, he will too...