I’m not attracted to my girlfriend, should I break up with her?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I been together for 2 years. When I first met her she was small and petite (which is what I’m attracted to) over the last 2 years she gained so much weight. When we first met she was around 110 and now she’s about 150. She’s 5”2 so she’s very short as well. She now has stretch marks and a tummy. I’m just not physically attracted to her. It’s so bad to where it’s hard for me to kiss her and be affectionate. I love her but I don’t know what to do. Should I bring up the gym to her? Should I break up with her? Help please

[Anonymous]

Look - if you were a man, women would probably tell you that you can't break up with her. But let's be honest - it's probably going to happen.

She has to know what's she done to herself. A person doesn't gain that much weight and not realise it. But if you never mentioned it, she might have assumed you're okay with it.

She needs to know how you feel. There might be an underlying medical issue. There might not. She might be depressed. It might be hormonal. But it might also be that she['s comfortable and happy and taking your relationship for granted - which is never a good idea. You should always be making some effort for your SO and it sounds like she has stopped doing that.

If you decide to stick around and try to help her, remember that a gym is good for discipline and toning, but absolute shit at weight loss. You can't out run a bad diet. She needs to watch/change what she eats.

[DomEric]

Dump her find what makes you happy