Why did my boyfriend get mad when I accuse him of cheating?

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I don’t know what’s going on with my boyfriend phone but he never wants me near it. There was this one female coworker he lied to me about hanging out with. I understand he might’ve hid it from me because I might get jealous but to lie about it made me uncomfortable. I never knew about it until I seen it with my own eyes. That was like two months ago and I let it go. He was on his phone few days ago while we were out and I made a joke like “you’ve been messaging your other girlfriends all day.” I was laughing when I said it but he still got mad about it. He even offered me to let me see his phone.

Thatasianlove16 · Accepted Answer

See I don’t get why people don’t just follow their intuition. Like obviously you don’t trust your dude. I told is this one before, why are you even get yourself upset finding out if he’s actually cheating when you feel he may be? And then in the end if he’s not you’re just a girl that keeps on pestering him about cheating and does make you look jealous regardless it’s pretty toxic already

Hangry22 · Accepted Answer

He's probably cheating. Cheaters always puts a guard up and blames the other partner for being insecure with trust issues. Also from what i have seen here and there, most cheating occurs at workplace. If he lied to you abour hanging out with her, it's not to protect you. It's because he knows it wasn't an innocent hangout which you wouldn't be ok with

WesBrewer · Accepted Answer

if someone called you one of the worst existing people in society you wouldn't like it either, that is why he got mad.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well its either because its true or because he resents not being trusted. Im leaning slightly towards true.

Anonymous · Answer

You basically accused him of doing something that you have no psychical proof that he is doing how you gonna feel if the shoe was on the other foot and he accused you off cheating without any proof and you would be pretty pissed off especially if you weren’t cheating

Swe_Elin · Answer

It's fully normal he gets mad of you accuse him of stuff, won't you be? Also, phone face down don't mean anything, and it's a good way to don't scratch the screen.

the_bruh · Answer

Because you accused him of cheating, hit me with something harder next time.

micap · Answer

Anyone who's not cheating would of joke with you and will always share his funny texts or others msgs with you. If he got and offered his phone in reality he was hoping you wouldn't go through it. There's no reason to become upset over a joke.

SavageGirl101 · Answer

Girl he’s cheating and he knows that your catching on to what he’s doing break up with him before u get your little heart hurt

killerboots · Answer

If you said it the first time and he act like that, then yes he's probably. But if you keep saying that with no proof at all, then it gets really annoying.

Maspolomas · Answer

Then he’s cheating if his phone is always face down then he’s up to something I leave mine face up my girlfriend has hers down I say to her I have nothing to hide

Anonymous · Answer

You're a toxic personality and accusing the innocent often results in them getting upset. As a shitty person, you'd think you would know this by now.

Wise4myage · Answer

Just imagine how you would feel if he accused you of cheating.

Dave31989 · Answer

Same reason a trumper gets mad when you tell him their guy lost

Anonymous · Answer

He's cheating.

Why did my boyfriend get mad when I accuse him of cheating?

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