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First of all guys don't use women for sex. Consenting human adults have sex. The act of sex needs no more reason than to just have sex. Because it feels great. The question is comparing apples to oranges. The act of sex is readily freely available. Money doesn't just grow on trees.
Neither are okay, so I totally agree with you.
I've seen a female user on here also complain about guys cheating, saying 'Why do guys enter relationships with women, if they're going to cheat', but at the same time, says there's nothing wrong with women using men for money.
All three at dickhead moves and if one is justified, then I don't see why the others should be.
If two adults have worked out some sort of... pay to play scenerio, then bless their hearts.
I may not agree with it. But it doesn't effect me in the least. I wouldn't enter into such an agreement. But thats just me.
Man : Would you sleep with me for $50,000?
Woman : I sure would.
M : Well then, how about for $1?
W : Hell, no! What kind of girl do you think i am?
M : We already established that. Now we are just haggling the price.
It’s not Otay in all reality the problem is simply that when you involve men in any of these issues where there is double standards the biggest factor is that men don’t usually hold much of a care for the look it gives them. So it’s that whole aspect of what you give a reaction to is how you will be addressed.
Sex is a two-way street that both parties benefit from. Plus, no one is being forced to say yes.
Anyone who uses another person for their money (woman using man, man using woman, man using man or woman using woman) is likely a bum with no real work experience who is only looking for an easy way out of not having to earn their own keep. And no, "gold digger" does not apply only to females. Males can be gold diggers too.
This ^^
Men don't "use" women for sex. Hell, I wouldn't even have a partner that doesn't want sex. It's a biological desire. Being a gold digger is using someone for their money and there is no love behind it. So if anything, it's just women that use men. Especially nowadays, men can't even be dominant with women. Women have all the power.
Firstly sex is a mutually beneficial biological activity that both sexes enjoy and partake in. Money, on the other hand, requires someone to give up time, energy, and resources to secure such. So for a woman to use and/or steal a man's money does not equal two people engaging in a physical activity that benefits both.
first of all you can't USE people for sex. sex is a mutual thing and both parties have to come to an agreement before the act. so if you felt used after sex then you were obviously expecting something more out of the act and only PROSTITUTES have sex and expect things in return.
till then your vagina is not expendable and money not only is but requires lots of work and effort to get it, therefore you can never compare the two scenarios you just brought up
You mean prostitution?
It is ok where it is legal.
Where it is not it is usually because drugs get involved, someone's life ruined, and then that guy ends up a serial killer of drugged up prostitutes.
Men are a whole lot less interested in sex than women - you can try to be a freeloader using men for sex and charging for it - you'll end up in trash after 32.
I don’t think she is talking about prostitution. I think she is talking about the worst of the worst: meal tickets, gold diggers and freeloaders. I think she is has been guilty of doing this to guys and is trying to find some rationalization to make her feel better. That is she took advantage of some innocent guy for money but it’s “okay” because some other guy took advantage of for sex.
It’s disgusting.
If it's an exchange, eg husband providing for a wife in return for sex, I don't see any problem, both are adults,,,
It's wrong here, if the husband neglects his wife, and still expects sex, or the wife expects the comforts and money provided but withholds sex,,,
I agree that it's the same double standard that applies ti many things masc.;fem. but I'm not sure it's wrong. I don. t believe I've ever manipulated anyone into having sex though I admit to seducing many. Since I lost my virginity age 13, I've made sure every girl or woman I was with was the recipient as much as the giver of pleasure. Maybe the word manipulative is okay but iy comes with negative, almost evil, connotations. I'm fairly certain that they weren't screams of horror I was hearing
True, but money has long term consequences and, with sex, at least there was some sort of attraction. With money, you are literally worth just the money, you are worthless as an individual. Don't get me wrong, I find both practices to be scummy, dishonest, manipulative and I hate both of them.
I don't remember using a woman for sex being okay in our current society though.
Aids is a long term consequence my friend.
Condoms and tests are a thing. You don't have to open your leg to every dude like that without protection or guarantee that they are clean.
Because we are supposed to be understanding of their "needs" & provide
Sounds like a 🐥 chick🙂
& yet stay quiet and not demand anything in return because it would make us unpleasant & all sorts of other names. Lol
Isn't it great 😊
Haha !
@Nazgol it's true that you need to understand what a man wants and to provide but you also have the right to ask for anything you want from your man because you will be his love and he is your everything in this life...
There are not walls between a husband and his wife, they can do whatever they want with each other...
I cannot be with a girl who ain't comfortable with me the way i'm comfortable with her, she makes me happy then i'll make her happy too...
She takes care of me and loves me from all her heart snd willing to do anything for me, then she will be appreciated and admired and i'll take good care of her, love only her and be faithfull to her, also provide for her...
What Tony say
Well here's the thing.
When you have sex with strangers, you're just filling the void. It's not a lifestyle it's a choice you make to numb the pain and loneliness.
If those around you are judging you for it, then they dont understand and if they're being dicks about it, you need new friends.
You are making excuses for having sex with strangers. You hand is a lot friendlier and it knows what you like and it never has a headache.
https://youtu.be/m_wP9KFUw6U
Sex is ok if both are willing to and making an agreement to do it and it’s not rape... if he leaves you after the sex... he is not obliged to make a commitment to stay with you especially if he didn’t say he would, you only have yourself to blame for making the choice to have sex with him, you didn’t have to
Taking money is stealing and stealing is bad
So one is ok and acceptable, the other is bad
Gold diggers are thieves
By the way a man never uses a woman for sex, unless you mean rape... to a rape a girl is using her for sex... but if a guy is consensual having sex with a girl... it’s not using her, u know why? Cos she’s also using him for sex... they’re both using each other’s bodies for an orgasm... so unless it’s rape... the girl is never being used for sex... it’s her fault if the guy leaves and doesn’t stay in a relationship with her... he doesn’t have to... there’s no obligation rules that says u have to stay with a woman after sex
Neither is okay and I don't think any decent person believes that they are.
Yeah why isn't ot ok! Never thought of that one before
It's time to consider some other ideas lmao 🤣
It's not OK to do either one.
Men that use women are predatory ass holes that deserve to be socially shamed.
Women that use men for money are whores and deserve to be socially shamed as well.
Predatory hoes
I like it
I think there is a great deal of selfishness with men and women who engage in that behavior. So I only think it’s normal for them to only think of how other’s actions effect them and not how they effect others. It really is a sad thing.
I hope both believe in karma
I think people like that believe in very little. They certainly have no morals.
You are very smart
Great question..
Gets back to the old Adige.
You don't get anything for nothing..
They could swap 😊
Pretty women lol
Let's be honest we both use each other.
That's the fun of it.
Each got some thing the other one wants..