I may feel a little bit insecure at first if she makes more than I do, because I feel like a lot of women are only interested in guys who make more than them.
But if I feel like she doesn't care about that kind of stuff then it won't really bother me.
No only broke dudes care about that I make really good money enough to support a family. I don't look for women to pay for things for me and if I go out on a date I'll pay I'm old fashioned like that
real men dont , but tbh at this time thinking is if she can provide for her own self and the things she want to buy it save me much trouble so part of thinking they do.
Nope I make more than we need if she works fine but priority is me the kids and the home. As long as she handles that I’m content being the only bread winner.
No, I hope to make enough for both of us. If she makes money, its all for saving and spending as far as I'm concerned. Not saying I need to be the bread winner, but I will be if she wants me to be.
Yes, I have seen it and they can be insecure if you are making more than them but it depends on the guy. I have found a number of guys feel inadequate if you are doing better then them, some not all
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fuck no i ain't no god damn gold digger. i even told her before we get married we're getting a prenup so she can keep all the stuff that's hers because i don't want any of it. shit i even made a last will leaving her all my stuff my investments jewelry diamonds etc. in case something were to ever happen to me. i even told her numerous times i don't want any of her stuff she can keep it all since she worked so damn hard for it all.
Everyone cares about how much your make. That is your identity in this society. But if the woman makes more than the man then it can be a blow to his ego in some cases
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I’d have to say most men don’t when compared to women. I could careless if she was working at McDonalds or Goodwill, most of us men go after looks then personality falls into place once we get to know her.
When I was in corporate, I was making more than my wife, but I never made more then $50K a year. Now she is in a better position to make more than I can. We do what we have to do in our partnership.
Not at all i mean I’d love and care that she’s an adult who can support themselves and that’s usually reflected in monetary terms but i wouldn't look at her success as something for my own benefit
hell yeah, the world ain't gonna be a good place for us with all the corruption and inflation, imma need a woman with smart finances and a good job if we going to survive
Some see their salaries as apart of their manhood. My wife makes a bit more than me now and it’s fine. I’m fine. I’m still a man. She doesn’t wear the pants. I wear the pants. Fuck you.
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For the most part no.
I may feel a little bit insecure at first if she makes more than I do, because I feel like a lot of women are only interested in guys who make more than them.
But if I feel like she doesn't care about that kind of stuff then it won't really bother me.
No only broke dudes care about that I make really good money enough to support a family. I don't look for women to pay for things for me and if I go out on a date I'll pay I'm old fashioned like that
A mannnn
Thanks! 😊
real men dont , but tbh at this time thinking is if she can provide for her own self and the things she want to buy it save me much trouble so part of thinking they do.
Nope I make more than we need if she works fine but priority is me the kids and the home. As long as she handles that I’m content being the only bread winner.
No, I hope to make enough for both of us. If she makes money, its all for saving and spending as far as I'm concerned. Not saying I need to be the bread winner, but I will be if she wants me to be.
No.
I just want her to be hardworking and ambitious.
She could be working in McDonald’s and I would not care.
Interesting cause I know you’re successful :)
Lol easy tiger I am not successful. I am on track to be but I am not there yet.
Lol I view your work ethic to be inspiring so that’s why I think you’re successful
☺️ ☺️awww that’s nice of you
Haha :)
Yes, I have seen it and they can be insecure if you are making more than them but it depends on the guy. I have found a number of guys feel inadequate if you are doing better then them, some not all
fuck no i ain't no god damn gold digger. i even told her before we get married we're getting a prenup so she can keep all the stuff that's hers because i don't want any of it. shit i even made a last will leaving her all my stuff my investments jewelry diamonds etc. in case something were to ever happen to me. i even told her numerous times i don't want any of her stuff she can keep it all since she worked so damn hard for it all.
Again... no. It doesn't matter. y'all keep asking this and we keep saying this but y'all keep asking like its going to change.
I’m glad to hear this
Because you broke as broke can be? 😂
Lol I’m actually not broke and I have a decent career
Why are you concerned about it? And why glad go hear if doesn't matter to men?
Can be different reasons. For me I’ve been afraid of being used.
If a man makes less than you he's trying to use you 75% of the time. Id bet money on it.
Ah you really think so
Yes. For sure. I see it all the fucking time. Dudes lazy and mooches off girlfriend.
lol I won’t date someone who makes less than me then!
(I’m joking by the way)
@Alyssa11 got jokes 🤣
Looool
I care that she is happy at whatever job or career she chooses. How much money is totally unimportant. Chemistry with each other is what matters.
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Everyone cares about how much your make. That is your identity in this society. But if the woman makes more than the man then it can be a blow to his ego in some cases
I’d have to say most men don’t when compared to women. I could careless if she was working at McDonalds or Goodwill, most of us men go after looks then personality falls into place once we get to know her.
All i care about is she is happy with what she is doing.
Nice one
Yes. I don't have to know the exact amount, but I'd like to know if it's enough that she can help with our responsibilities
When I was in corporate, I was making more than my wife, but I never made more then $50K a year. Now she is in a better position to make more than I can. We do what we have to do in our partnership.
Yes and no
Men want you to have a steady income. But, they don't care if you make a lot or just above enough.
Not at all. If she makes bank then that’s a plus. As long as she makes enough to support herself then that’s good
Not at all i mean I’d love and care that she’s an adult who can support themselves and that’s usually reflected in monetary terms but i wouldn't look at her success as something for my own benefit
hell yeah, the world ain't gonna be a good place for us with all the corruption and inflation, imma need a woman with smart finances and a good job if we going to survive
Some see their salaries as apart of their manhood. My wife makes a bit more than me now and it’s fine. I’m fine. I’m still a man. She doesn’t wear the pants. I wear the pants. Fuck you.