He doesn't acknowledge me in public?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month now, and everything is good, except when we're at school, he doesn't voluntarily talk or acknowledge me. At lunch, we sit at the tables next to each other but not together and yet he would never say hi or wave to me. He walked right past me the other day without even looking at me. When we have intimacy or on the phone, it's all good though. What does this mean? Should I just let him go?

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thanks so much everyone!

I'm gonna have a serious talk and kick his ass D:<

[Cassie16]

I know the problem. We've been together for 4 months now and we decided together that it would be smarter (his reputation would likely suffer under mine at school). But since two months, I'm doubting and he isn't willing to change.

If this is really the case, I'll be breaking up with him soon, after a lot of thinking and advice. If I were you, I'd talk to him first. If he has a reason, talk about that. If he doesn't, ask him to change. If he doesn't... Go where I may be heading now: break up. That's the only advise I can give you.

[Anonymous]

wow, he's such a loser. date someone else... >.> I'm sure you'll find someone hun. until then don't date this guy at all! he isn't really your boyfriend...or even a friend for that matter...

[Zebrah]

Sounds like the wrong kind of guy to be around, boyfriends tend to like to be around their girlfriends, regardless of who ever is around. It sounds like he might just be using you, I'd talk to him about it. I hope things get better though for you!

[jl111]

Huh! Why would you want to be with someone like that? If he really liked you, he would do anything to be next to you all the time!

[Anonymous]

That's a bad sign. I don't think he genuinely likes you.

[Anonymous]

What is your definition of intimacy?

[Asker]

For example, we would make out and cuddle.

[Opinion Owner]

That is the time he acknowledges you and no other time correct?

[Asker]

that and on chat

[Opinion Owner]

See where I am going with this?

[Asker]

-____-;; what should I do then?

[Opinion Owner]

Is he paying for the "intimacy"?

[Asker]

Yeah, I guess

[Opinion Owner]

Wait, what

He pays you when you fool around?

[Asker]

When we have dates, he would pay if that's what you mean. I'm not a prostitute -__-''

[Opinion Owner]

Kinda what I was getting at

but not how you are but how he treats you

Like a free prostitute that when he sees in public he acts as if your a stranger

And that he would be ashamed to be associated with you

[Asker]

that sounds accurate, what should I do then?

[Opinion Owner]

got it now?