Am I expected to tell my straight friends I'm bi if I'm having a sleepover there?

[Anonymous]

My opinion is no, I shouldn't have to tell them because I don't have any weird intentions and it's none of their business anyway. I wouldn't say I'm in the closet, I just prefer to not bring it up unless I'm asked.

But does anyone else have any differing opinions?

[caring__1]

The only reason you'd need to tell others about a food allergy is if you plan on partaking of a meal with them. If sex is not a component of or the focus of your sleepover, no announcements need to be made. Make sure you know everyone is on the same page, though, as anyone can bring up the topic. Talk to your friends about what your plans are for the sleepover, so no one has to deal with an unexpected surprise or disappointment.

[ChrisMaster69]

If they don’t know, then don’t tell,

It’s not best time to mention it prior to a sleep over as makes it all a bit odd.

[Little_Bumblebee]

No, I agree with you.
You don't have to tell them anything, and expecting people to tell them your sexuality is faulty.

Also, if you told them, it MIGHT get uncomfortable or weird for them to know.

If they do ask, then of course, never lie, that doesn't come with anything good.

[Emii_Urashima]

I don't think you need to tell them. You can, but it should depend on how open-minded they are. I am bisexual and I have straight girl friends. They don't have a problem because they know I won't disrespect their sexual preference.

[Eldoradο]

Hi, it's completely okay if you don't want to come out now. In my opinion you don't have to tell your friends your sexual orientation, especially because you're sleeping in the same room. I mean don't feel bad about it. Everyone has friends of the same or opposite sex, so it's not a big deal. But telling them you're bi before you sleep there would be strange.

[Hannah_le]

It’s not their business and u don’t intend to do anything like u said they are just friends so it doesn’t rlly matter.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think whatever your sexual preference is that is your business and none of your friends business let it be at that

[20yearsolder]

If I sleep over somewhere, I don't tell anybody. It's none of their business.

[pigoat]

If they are your friends either choice should not matter and have the same result

[MommyC16]

I'm not sure where I stand. I personally think that if we're that close you should have already told me.

[Tomtom9090]

Tell them you prey on your same sex before you go so they can uninvite you before its too late.

[Asker]

LOL.

[Cicero79]

Are you planning on having sex while you are there?

[Asker]

In the description, I addressed that

[Cicero79]

If you think it would be an issue for your "friends" just tell them outright and see how they react.

If they have an issue, it's time for some new friends.

[Asker]

I don't think it's an issue, I was just wondering if there's some unsaid code about going to a sleepover without your sexuality being out

[Asker]

But the second part, very true

[Anonymous]

I would sue you if II found out that you didn't tell my daughter.

[Asker]

lol ok

[Opinion Owner]

My lawyer will be calling your parents tomorrow to set up the court date

[Asker]

love that

[In_Trance]

there is no expectation, no