If you do send girls gifts or money can you share why you do so?
Do guys really buy things for girls and send them money just for being attractive?
If you do send girls gifts or money can you share why you do so?
Well it's true some of my friends do buy woman cars, clothes, jewelry and so on. But they are only using them and when the relationship is over some of those gifts are taken back. Kind a sad thing. But that only speaks how much people think they are worth.
Me personally I'd never do that. Now that I'm married is another topic so gifts are ok. But to send a gift to random woman or give money like that nahhh...
Now I've been asked and begged for stuff to give or buy. But that ain't just my cup of coffee. A dinner is cool, flowers sure, but beyond that earn your own money If you want something.
But who am i to judge what people do with thier own money.
It happens quite a bit, but the long term emotional effects on the woman are almost always poor and usually leads to her winding up alone and unloved.
This is because these guys feel like of they are shoveling money at her, they are owed things. Namely sex, or a relationship, because what they are paying for is a psuedo relationship with you.
When you eventually do not deliver on what they think they are getting, they turn mean and spiteful and even vengeful.
Dealing with this over and over again, sometimes on a daily basis, that has a profound effect on your mental state.
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Guys often see this as a way to get some attention. It is a bit different if the guy has met the girl in person, they have some connection, and her is trying to move a relationship along. In online relationships for compensation, guys can easily get confused. It is easy on many platforms to have a person accepting gifts from hundreds of admirers, but it is just a job to them.
Unfortunately yes, this is a large part of the reason why women these days have such massive egos. If I was a girl I would definitely stream on twitch or do only fans. I don't blame them for doing it I blame the pathetic men who donate to them.
I don't understand the logic of these guys who send my friends money and things for literally nothing in return
I never have but yes some guys are that desperate. I buy things for my girlfriend once I’m in a relationship because I like/love her and want her to feel good.
Now that is sweet and kind and makes sense, I just don't get how my friends end up with all this stuff and money. Like there's so little logic to me. My friends do nothing but get all this stuff
Your friends are benefitting from other girls who tend to exchange sexual favors for those gifts. It’s similar to ‘buying 10 minutes’ of a strangers time by buying her a drink at a bar. But taken to a higher level these days as only fans now gives guys a way to control women sexually for money and other girls will sleep with guys who buy them things.
So if your friends are getting gifts and not putting out then those are guys looking for favors in return. It’s also possible your friends are in fact doing things with the guys and not telling you about it. They say nothing in life is free.
Oh, absolutely! In my case, I enjoy spoiling a beautiful woman who has a boyfriend, or better yet, buying gifts and gift cards for both of them, if her boyfriend is okay with that.
They are probably crazy. It would rather be better to give that money/gifts to charity.
That's simping, girl doesn't even have to be atractive, she can just be charismatic or trigger the paternalistic instinct.
Technically doesn't even have to be a girl.
Also, girls also do it.
they believe that's what gets them women
and most women fall for it
maybe really lonely guys, not normal ones
Yeah, that's called simping nd no good man does it
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