What has been the longest time you've been in lust with someone?

[Anonymous]

Mine has been 9 months.

[OlderAndWiser]

I met a woman in 2007 and immediately felt a strong physical attraction to her. We had an on again/off again relationship over the years, primarily because of geographical separation after our initial meeting. I saw her in 2010, 2015, 2017, 2019, and 2020 when I finally said goodbye to her, but I am still physically attracted to her. But it's definitely over because lust is not enough to make a relationship work and she lacks enough respect for me to make a good relationship.

And I met a GREAT lady in December 2020!

[ohshee]

Mine is right now it's been a year-and-a-half send covid-19 I don't know what happened to me vet I have become just the most lustful person in the world I am horny 24/7 hours a day and the thing is is I don't know who I'm listing for all I want to do is please somebody I want to just make somebody scream

[Jamie05rhs]

I feel ya, dawg.

[CrazyGirl2]

Well, I guess if you mean that feeling of total attraction where you “want” someone, but are not in love with them… maybe 4 months. But to be fair, I’m not quite sure of the exact point where I knew that I loved him. I’m guessing that it was about 4 months, but I just cannot be sure. I do know 100% that I loved him after about 4 months, but it’s really hard to know the exact moment when that lust became love. This is an excellent and very thought provoking question… thanks for asking it.

[Hannah_le]

12 months cuz my ass was a simp when I shouldn’t have been LOLL.

[AmeerX]

Crush yes lust no. Lust is sexual while my feelings were never sexual.
I was in love with a girl but I never thought of having sexual feelings. Max was holding hands but sadly that never happened.
And I always prayed that she find a good man. Sadly, I think God thought I was not good for her and she was married to someone else her parents decided.
I am just happy for her ☺️. I think of her as a littler sister

[TheorionMage]

To date, 40+ years... (that's NOT to say that my 'lust' was requited! ) :'(

[Jamie05rhs]

Usually just 5 minutes. Maybe an hour tops. The moment passes and I get over it.

[Jamie05rhs]

But of course I CAN stay in lust with someone much longer, given the proper circumstances. (Meaning marriage.). I just shut it down and don't allow it any oxygen. Because I'm a Christian, so lusting after someone who is not my wife would be wrong. (It's also creepy, regardless of whether you're religious or not.)

[The_Maphio]

16 years and ongoing.

[Asker]

Wow? Is it lust and nothing else?

[The_Maphio]

We are living together since that long ago, and I still am head over heel for her porcelain skin and absolutely irresistible ways.

[The_Maphio]

Of course it's not just lust. But I never lusted for nobody whose I didn't known for an extensive period of time.

[Asker]

Is she the only one you lust after?

[The_Maphio]

Yes. I was way more of a horndog before this relationship, but now I have found somebody on which to focus that charge of mine. Much to her own enjoyment.

[LiamSawyer]

Not long if not fulfilling it.

[genericname85]

reciprocated or not? xD

[Asker]

You can say both

[genericname85]

Reciprocated: a few days. not reciprocated: roughly 5 years xD

[Asker]

That must be love then

[genericname85]

no xD being into someone for 5 years without reciprocity is pure idiocy. i mean she was a "best friend" for quite some time. but still. nobody should ever make a pathetic doormat out of themself like that. well you're always wiser after making the experience :D

[Asker]

Did you lust after another person during those 5 years?

[genericname85]

not really. i had a hookup during those 5 years but that was an act of desparation and completely meaningless to me.

[Asker]

Do you think you would enjoy hookups if you were not in love with her?

[genericname85]

i'm not in love with her anymore. i don't generally "prefer" hookups. but i guess they're alright. i was hoping to get distracted after getting rejected multiple times (while still staying friends) and get over her (it was actually her suggestion, believe it or not. she even offered "pitty sex" for me to get over her but that went too far for me.) it didn't work.

[Asker]

She offered you sex?

[genericname85]

yeah. in her mind that would "show me" that she was not for me.

[Asker]

Ah got it. You accepted her offer?

[genericname85]

no. as i said, i think that would have been a terrible idea. that would probably completely have crushed my ego and my feeling of self-worth. not that i had lots of that to begin with.

[Jamie05rhs]

@genericname85 Good for you for not accepting. You made the right choice.

[genericname85]

@Jamie05rhs thanks man. i still sometimes think "what if i had used that opportunity" xD but that's my dick thinking. my brain knows it was the better decision.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yep! Always go with your big head over your little head.

[Ripper_E]

Just lust? several years.

[Asker]

Are you sure it was not love?

[Ripper_E]

Positive, because I've loved someone for much longer than that.

[DJB72]

My entire teenage years for the same girl.

[Anonymous]

I have liked the same girl for 7 years

[krin_m]

10 years and counting!

[Asker]

Then it's love

[Anonymous]

Never... maybe few seconds only

[loveslongnails]

15 years !!!

[jahaims]

9 years

[Unbeatable]

Like an hour

[JamieLoves]

Over a year...

[Pterodon]

Decades

[eagle1951]

37 years