Girls, what's the longest time you've had a crush on someone?

[Anonymous]

So I caught this girl staring at me maybe 2 years ago and I thought she might be interested. I saw her on facebook but her status was "in a relationship" so I thought I must of been imagining things and forgot all about it. Now a few years later she's showing interest and staring again but I think she's now single. So I'm thinking maybe she wasn't happy in her old relationship when she first stared. Girls would you keep liking someone for years?

Years

Months

Weeks

If I get nothing in a couple of months I'll move on

Results

[Cjanes]

I've never had a crush longer then 3 weeks. Either I start dating them within that time frame or I lose interest. I kind of just go up say I'm interested in you do what you will with that information. Usually works in my favour

[Asker]

Very confident

[Cjanes]

I figure worse they can do is reject me

[Asker]

There's nothing like getting straight to the point hey :D

[Cjanes]

At least your not left wondering. That's how I got my current boyfriend and we've been together almost two years. I walked up and said I like you do what you want with that information but I won't wait around. Two days later he asked me out. It takes the scariness for the other person away so they don't have to worry about getting there feelings hurt.

[Asker]

hmmm never really thought about it like that. Maybe I should try it :P

[Cjanes]

It's recommended

[overthinkingmind]

The longest time I've had a crush was 3 years. So yeah, I think it's completely possible that she was interested in you for all this time :)

[overthinkingmind]

Thanks for MHO (:
So, is she still showing interest?

[Asker]

Yes actually. I'm talking to her when I can and trying to get to know her more. We'll see how it goes :D

[overthinkingmind]

Good. That's how things work :)

[9mfeo]

I had a crush on a guy for like 5 years. We liked each other but it would have been long distance and neither of us wanted that.

[I_am_repulsive]

Longest crush I've ever had for a girl was 2 years and basically nothing happened since I kept on prolonging and not really make any move whatsoever

[jamesdegod]

i can tell you its years when this bitch fucked me over for some guy she had a crush on for like 5 years lmfao

[wisdom_sharer]

No way, it can happen to kids (cos you see that person almost every day in school)...

[tasten_honey]

Yes, I have. I know it's stupid. I really don't know what to think of it but I do.

[Bards]

6 years and then he started to look like a chump and I lost those feelings

[Asker]

Wow 6 years. Long time

[Bards]

Yeah. It started in 3rd grade. It was mostly one sided. I remember I use to give him my quarters when he got upset in class and then be cheered up. He really liked money and he was gr8 at math. He didn't know though. He sorta liked me but I was too shy to really engage him. -_- and then once I saw him kissing a friend of mine. They didn't notice me pass by. I actually died alittle inside that day xD

[Asker]

aww that sucks. I know that feeling. I liked a girl once but another guy beat me to her

[Bards]

Aww and yeah :/

[Anonymous]

only ever 2-4 weeks until i had one last 8 months last year.

[Anonymous]

So far it's been 2 years.

[MissNowhere]

3 years it was.

[Anonymous]

only months.