I have been friends with my crush for a long time. I've known him since my first sem. He takes engineering, so I dont see him all the time. I am hot as hell and have lots of guys chasing after me. I have had sex too many times last year it got boring. The only guy I can't get is my crush. He always dates ugly girls. Like there is this one ugly Asian chick which he met in linear algebra (yes I stalked) that he is dating? I don't understand why. He is awesome and very handsome and deserves a hot girl, but only dates ugly ones. Why would he even date an Asian girl when we white girls are so much hotter? Why doesn't he realize that he deserves better, and that I want him?
I've flirt with him and touch him but he rejects all my advances? I dont know why ugly girls even think they have a chance with him. its disgusting tbh
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I saw him cuddling and holding hands with this chick on snapchat? wtf? is he trying to make me jealous or something? i can't stand it. what should I do?
Why would my crush go for this girl and not me?
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Anonymous
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Here are the mistakes you made:
-Thinking this is purely a matter of physical attraction -Objectifying him -Thinking she is ugly (she is not at all ugly) and therefore less of a person than you -Thinking that every guy should automatically fall for you (no matter how beautiful a woman is, not every guy will fall for her)
If you really want to land this guy if things don't want to work out for them, you need new tactics. Be a good friend to him, friendly to her, and go out with no more than one guy. That's going to require a lot of patience and discipline.
One of the things that comes across the pics you posted is that she is more humble than you. Perhaps he finds that attractive.
He rejects you because you're a thot and she's not. You just told us all you've had so much promiscuous sex before 20 that you got bored with it, within a year. Why wouldn't he want a cute Asian grill over some slut with obvious daddy issues?
For someone who called another girl an ugly bitch in this very question, you sure are sensitive about your own faults. I'm very sorry that you're so butthurt.
So you’re right. We don’t know you, but you aren’t really coming off as the easiest to get along with based on your post and that’s all we have to work with in terms of your personality. Look, just forget about him. There’s other guys. I know it’s hard but he just doesn’t want you. I’m sorry, because that’s hard for anyone to hear but you have to accept it. Try working on being more chill, and if you really do have a great personality in real life like you say, work on bringing that out. You catch more flies with honey and if you want people to like you, you have to first make yourself personable.
Also, that girl is pretty. Do you really know her that well to be making judgements about her personality? I’m not saying you are wrong because for all I know she might not be the greatest person. I don’t know. I don’t know her or you, but the fact of the matter is, even if she is as bad as you think she is, he still likes her and there’s nothing you can do to change that so just leave them alone.
Lol, jealous much... I think that here you're the bitch not her... have you ever thought that your best friend may like her because of her personality and her traits not only because of her looks? He likes good girls, not bad ones like you are showing here yourself... you're not doing a good advertisement on yourself like that here, comparing your look to another girl but also showing how ugly your inner character is. That's why he know he should stay away from you. I congratulate him for choosing a girl judging by her personality and not looks.
In answer to your update: LEAVE HIM ALONE he knows what he's doing with his life and he certainly wants her there not you, understand it, accept it, come over it.
You know what? I wanted to be the bigger person and not reply to this hateful slanderous post, but I can't hold it any longer. Are you saying my personality is bad and my looks are good? Because you're wrong about one of them.. I guarantee you that my personality is better than hers. she looks and sounds like a bitch. not me. and no im not jealous. you are the one that is coming off jealous.
Dear, @jae, it is you who are jealous and can't accept that fact that your crush love her and don't love you, and you can't leave him because you love him but it is his choice he choosen her not you just accept it... it's him life his choice he'll get what he choosen you need to move on
This question and the way it is sentenced, pisses me off.
Did you even take permission before posting and degrading a girl you don't know personally? I wish she sees this and sues you for character defamation.
This pisses me off so much that I am going to go ahead and say that maybe he didn't go for you because of your behaviour towards others.
I would go for you you are hot but everyone has their own type , Some guys love Asian Girls because of their culture. Where American girls have a bad reputation just like you said in your post that you slept with a bunch of guys , so that might be a turn off to him if he heard about the guys you slept with. Where an Asian girl have the reputation of being loyal and faithful to their men and don't cheat. I was shocked to hear this as well but I have a few guy friends that are all about Asian Girls and I asked them why and that's the reason apparently American girls aren't faithful
Have you ever considered the fact that not everyone prioritizes looks alone? She's not even unattractive, and you look as Asian as she is. If you're as rude and obnoxious in person as you are showing us here, then it's pretty obvious why he's not interested in you.
I just read this and I got turned off already. All I gotta say is that you're nothing but a jealous shallow... well, you know how to complete it. Look, looks aren't everything. There is something you lack which is PERSONALITY. Haha and to be honest, I'd date the other girl too. Posting pictures of other people and stalking them? Jeez.
First and foremost, beauty is subjective. I find this Asian girl hot as hell and a beauty. Probably she also have a personality that you clearly lack, belittling people based on their ethnicities and appearance. there's more to a person than just looks. If you learned that probably youd be more attractive. Right now, to me you aren't.
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Anonymous
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Must have something to do with that horrible attitude and unattractive personality. Girls like you are nice to have sex with, but no normal guy would even want to date someone like you.
Im still in my own bubble because im still young but from what I can gather you're both beautiful girls and you seem like a bit of a.. cunt? Sorry if that offends you but I'm just used to using that word frequently. Then again he may just be infatuated with her and come around to you in the end. Also don't assume you're prettier because she's Asian. That's just straight up arrogant.
Your crush probably just connects with her in a way for him to be with her. Looks isn't really everything to some people. I don't know her personally but it must be something about her that he really likes. Maybe it's best to move on. You will never know you might meet someone better and you will forget all about him.
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Anonymous
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I'm sorry, you're telling me you aren't Asian? The reason he isn't with you is because of your shitty personality.
To anyone who's ACTUALLY wholly white, you are Asian. Go out on the street and ask random people "hey do I look Asian" and your racist bubble will be burst.
I am sorry. You sound like a ho, and a b*tch. Your personality is probably horrible and you have the reputation of a sl*t. Fix you personality. You are racist too. That Asian girl is absolutely beaitiful, and I bet much prettier than you.
WTF? I did ever insult you? NO. You are being bitchy for no goddam reason. You sound so goddam jealous because i get more attention than you. haters gonna hate
Like I totally think you're better looking but if what you typed is genuinely your opinion and not just bitter resentment coming from a place of hurt. I wouldn't want to be with you either.
Boys who think with there dick and not there head are the only ones who want anything to do with you. You would be such a catch if you were humble and just accepting to others happiness and not so jealous.
Why do u even have pictures of her? That's really weird and makes you seem insecure for comparing yourself to her. And tbh, you look Asian as well... not to say that it's a bad race or anything
Yeah, personally I think you're both pretty but looks don't matter, it's whether for not you connect and work well with each other and honestly you've got a bit of a shitty personality honey.
She has something you don't have,... for him to go after her means he finds something attractive about her... but from your statement you sound rude... or maybe he knows she is a keeper/better attitude/character... only him knows why... my thoughts
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Anonymous
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Your personality makes you ugly, there's your answer. She's probably a lot nicer than you are.
Maybe because unlike you he doesn't just look at someone's looks he likes their personality and the only reason you tap aren't together is because u have a shitty one
On one hand she is better looking and on the other you admit to being a thot who's been 'round the block to many times ain't nobody trying to fuck a thot unless they got low self-esteem
well you both are really pretty but some guys dont go for looks they look for other things like for me the looks would be the last thing ill notice about a girl
She looks nice, but you look hot.. I guess you have been friendzoned.. Or He is not confident of keeping a hot girlfriend who other guys would want to fuck.. so he dates girls who looks nice, not hot n sexy..
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