Should I tell this girl I had a crush on her?

[Anonymous]

I've had this crush for a couple of months that I'm trying to get over. She's absolutely adorable and my feelings for her are pretty strong. Initially I was just going to suck it up and move on because we don't agree on some core issues and I didn't think a relationship was in the cards. Should I tell her to get closure and know how to move forward, or just move on?

[SueShe]

There is only one right answer and it is just to move on and not try to tell her anything. Why?

Because by telling her, you put yourself in a "beggar's" position. You lower yourself to confess something you know has no meaning for her or you may get the reply you don't want to hear about yourself.

You state that you have too many issues that would make a relationship fail. There is no need to address those issues because you may risk to lose that person's friendship. Hearing about your confession may only make her distance herself from you.

[Anonymous]

You should not assume anything without having a clear conversation with her. Have a clear conversation with her and tell her how you feel and how you would like the issues to be solved. If she's okay with your opinions, then she'll be with you. If she disagrees, you can say her that you will be moving on. Clear conversation should be made before moving on. Don't move on without getting closure

[Nikki1989]

Just get over it and move on. There is no point in dragging this out for any longer.

[DizzyDesii]

Ask for closure but if you dont get it, move on

[Asker]

Wdym ask for it? I meant I would get closure knowing whether or not she feels the same. You know?

[DizzyDesii]

Oh yea