I feel like a loser everyone is getting married, engaged, publishing books and nothing great happens with me?

[Anonymous]

Im 28 all I've done is travel the world and complete a business degree. I've never had a boyfriend either.

[caring__1]

We all do what we choose to do. Unfortunately, sometimes the objectives we attach to those activities don't actually happen. People have different perspectives on what is an accomplishment. Others may view you as having accomplished more than they did, as all they did was marry right out of high school and start producing babies. It's easy to view the grass as greener in other situations. You have done what you wanted to do. If your desires have changed, no one is preventing you from changing your focus. When I was in grad school, the average age of the students was mid-30s. You're not too old to be the person you choose to be. You can sit around and feel sorry for yourself, or you can take action and become someone you can be proud of. You can't change yesterday, but you can change today and tomorrow.

[msc545]

The great thing that has happened for you is that you have NOT gotten married. Marriage is a horrible trap for men and would be almost the worst thing you could do to yourself. DM me if you don't understand this and I will explain.

As for publishing a book, you must first write one - have you done that, or are you in the process of it? If not - get started!

[Asker]

Why is it so bad to get married

[msc545]

For you, as a woman, it's a great deal. For men, not at all. Divorce-rape, false accusations, child support, alimony, paternity fraud to name a few problems.

[aintnocandle]

What? Traveling the world is like all I want right now. I feel like I have nothing much to me because I haven’t traveled much. I think that is a lot to have experienced (: And boyfriends aren’t even anything to fret. Most of the time it’s just super emotional and doesn’t work out and gets you no where (except more experienced in dating I suppose?) But it doesn’t make me feel accomplished. But, wanting more is a good thing sometimes so sit with it and let it drive you. You’re no more or less a person in the end though.

[cherryblossomXD]

Traveling the world and completing a degree are awesome feats too! No need to compare yourself to others. You are you doing you.

[Anonymous]

At 28, I was completely on my own, depressed, and wondering why I was bothering.
Keep going. Life has a way of coming to you.
Traveling extensively and completing your education are valid achievements.

[NathanDavis]

well, if it helps... I am older than you and I am not married, nor engaged, I am not published. I don't have a degree and I have not travelled around the world either... lol.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, I've never had a girlfriend.
So I guess we're even.

But I'm proud of you for getting a business degree; that's awesome. That can get you far in life. Regardless of your relationship status, you will most likely be successful!

[jahaims]

You feel like a loser because you are comparing yourself to others. Nothing happens to you? So go make stuff happen. People are taking actions to achieve all those things you listed. They aren't just happening to them.

[Shihab91]

You are good, i wish i can travel more. And don't listen to people who says you don't need a man. I hope that you will find a man support you in this life and love you. Don't worry god always has a plan believe it.

[monkeynutts]

These accomplishments are meaningful, you should be proud of yourself, the relationship issue, well you can’t always get what you want, ask trump about that one.

[ToastyOats]

Geez, women can get any guy they want. Just do it then, before I start spamming you with Nike Logos.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

It could be SO much worse and fancy that. Fan Dabby Dozy if I do say so myself

[Jmmmfi4]

Thats still pretty damn impressive

[jasco]

Well never to late to try and get one

[CreamySeed]

Everyone is gunna die one day so who gives a fuu

[In_Trance]

So what are you gonna do about it?

[Nick245]

Would give a try to talk to you !!

[Pterodon]

I’ll be your boyfriend

[wickhamhayls]

then don't compare yourself with others.