Should you take it seriously if your boyfriend says "you're not going anywhere, you're my wife?" Does this relationship sound dangerous?

[Anonymous]

[btbc92]

Oh, hell no. If you are having sex with him, then technically you are his wife, and you're supposed to stay together. But you have gotten yourself involved with a man who is a controller and sounds abusive. That is why you wait for marriage to have sex LEGALLY, and be CAREFUL who you get involved with because a lot of these men and some women are crazy.

[MzAsh]

Well, a boyfriend shouldn’t be calling anyone his wife. That’s what a husband does.
And yes, I would take it seriously and not tolerate being talked to like that.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the context and how he said it (tone of voice). Did it sound like a "threat"? If so, yes.

[slatyb]

You aren't married. HUGE RED FLAG. He's denying your autonomy. Get out before it's too late.

[This_is_my_username]

Yeah, I would take it very seriously. Did he mean it in a joking manner? Or was this a threat? If it's a threat, I would hit the road faster than Jack.

[fred_durst]

report him to police asap , who know if he will kill a person tomorrow

[Luckycharms12]

That's a creepy thing to say

[fallen_wings]

really dangerous

[Anonymous]

Wow what a whackjob

[Opinion Owner]

aren't going anywhere as in to the store to your friends to a restaurant or movie? or with another guy?