Why would a married guy say such words” if you bring me this I won’t bother you for the rest of this year”? why does it feel like as if he owns me?

[Anonymous]

The if or this year etc like doesn’t he know better than that and why he thinks he has the right to do whatever he wants with me what’s the point where does he think I’ll get him

[Oliverlogan263]

There could be a few reasons why a married man would say such words to you. It is possible that he is trying to control or manipulate you into doing something that he wants. He may also be trying to make you feel obligated to him or to do something for him in return. It is important to remember that you are not obligated to do anything for this man and that you have the right to say no. If you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, you should distance yourself from him and consider blocking him or reporting him to the authorities.

[Asker]

You think something could happen if I don’t distance myself or do anything about ut

[Asker]

It**

[Oliverlogan263]

It is possible that something could happen if you do not distance yourself from a married man who is saying such things to you. He may continue to try to control you and make you feel like you owe him something. He may also try to pressure you into having something to do with him.

[Asker]

But that’s on me to say yes or no so why he thinks he can pressure me

[Asker]

Well and of course sometimes we don’t use our brains and get taken advantage off

[Asker]

Like asking me to bring biscuit he won’t bother me maybe he wanted to text me and see how far I will go

[Oliverlogan263]

You are correct that it is ultimately up to you to say yes or no to any requests that a married man makes of you. However, it is important to remember that he may be using emotional manipulation or coercion to try to get you to do what he wants.

For example, he may tell you that you owe him something because he has done something nice for you, or he may threaten to withdraw his affection or support if you do not do what he wants.

It is important to be aware of these tactics and to resist them. You should never feel pressured or obligated to do anything that you do not want to do.

If you are feeling uncomfortable or pressured by a married man, it is important to set boundaries and to communicate your needs to him. If he does not respect your boundaries, then you may need to take further action, such as ending the relationship.

[Anonymous]

I would ignore that nonsense.

[Asker]

Why you say nonsense