For context, we are NOT engaged but I would like to be. It has been six years and I have given up some big things in my life for him and I do not feel like it is being reciprocated. I moved to be closer to him, but we do not live together even though that is what I want, and its always the same excuse over and over again and I am starting to get really fed up with feeling like I am not a priority. He still lives with his parents and that is why I think he is hesitant to move out - he has dinner made for him every night, laundry done, and doesn't have to worry about "adult" responsibilities. Meanwhile, I live alone, do my own cooking and laundry, cleaning, and am a full functioning adult. I don't know what to do. I am having dinner tonight with my boyfriend and I want to bring up all of my concerns, but I need help in figuring out what to say. Does anyone have suggestions?
My boyfriend of 6 years doesn't talk much about marriage, but when he drunk he calls me "his wife" and talks about marriage. Should I be concerned?
For context, we are NOT engaged but I would like to be. It has been six years and I have given up some big things in my life for him and I do not feel like it is being reciprocated. I moved to be closer to him, but we do not live together even though that is what I want, and its always the same excuse over and over again and I am starting to get really fed up with feeling like I am not a priority. He still lives with his parents and that is why I think he is hesitant to move out - he has dinner made for him every night, laundry done, and doesn't have to worry about "adult" responsibilities. Meanwhile, I live alone, do my own cooking and laundry, cleaning, and am a full functioning adult. I don't know what to do. I am having dinner tonight with my boyfriend and I want to bring up all of my concerns, but I need help in figuring out what to say. Does anyone have suggestions?