Is there something going on?

[Anonymous]

Is it weird that I don’t know where my boyfriend lives and every time we have sex it’s in his car or outside. Or if we go on a trip. I’ve never met his family either.

we’ve been together for a year

[krysten02]

Absolutely. If he hasn’t introduced you to his family after a year, he definitely views you as a side piece or he is with someone else. Also, considering he doesn’t have the decency to even take you to his house to have sex with you in his own bed (granted someone else could be sleeping in it) he’s not worth your time.

[Asker]

I just have a weird feeling that something is not right.

[Ashlyxx]

My ex did this to me. He lived far and worked a lot but I’m pretty sure the dude played me BAD. I was to stupid to see it cause he manipulated me but after a year I started to see the relationship was going nowhere. Do you guys live far? Does he work a lot? It sounds strange.

[Asker]

We live in the same city and every time he drops me off he texts me when he gets home and it’s about 10 minutes. He isn’t working right now cuz we see each other everyday.

[Ashlyxx]

Holy shit yeah that’s crazy. Like it’s one thing if he lived far or was busy or couldn’t have visitors but that’s messed up

[OlderAndWiser]

How many people have suggested to you that he is either a married man or living with a girlfriend?

[Asker]

I would say a couple close friends and my brother find it odd. They ask me where does he live and my brother jokingly said what if he’s married

[OlderAndWiser]

Its not a joke. That's the most likely explanation. He probably has a wife and two or three small children at home. Why don't you ask him why you never see his home or his family?

[kkirk4442]

Something is definitely strange, and he likely has a whole other life that you are unaware of.

[Ironic_Method]

... yes. Sounds like he's in another relationship or something. A YEAR?

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Lol she said "boyfriend."

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes!!!