Girls, What would you do if your boyfriend cheated on you and lied about it to you?

[Anonymous]

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That would end it right there. If someone cheats and lies they're not sorry, don't have any remorse... Funny they don't say sorry UNTIL they get caught. So are they really sorry? Or just sorry they got caught? Someone truly remorseful would come clean BEFORE getting caught. Forgiveness doesn't mean staying with someone who doesn't truly love you or care about your feelings, because if they REALLY did, they wouldn't of cheated in the first place.

[Ammi_goldie806]

Well it's only one thing to do is to cut him off because I'm out of my life you don't get a second chance unless you got raped or you were forced to do it other than that you're being cut off cuz obviously I wasn't worth the love or the wait. That means your boyfriend has not said that he is in love with you and you owe me there for you. A real man would not cheat on his girl cuz he has found the one obviously if he is cheating on you and lying about it obviously he is having a side piece and he has not found the one when a guy finds the one he's not going to look to anybody else he's going to stay with that one person.

[kyleelyn199723]

I’ve had this happen. Found out they became girlfriend and boyfriend on Valentine’s Day and I showed up to his house unexpectedly, grabbed my shit, he tried to shove me out of his house so I slapped him like 10 times. Don’t play me like that ever. His face when I slapped him looked disappointed 🤷🏻‍♀️ Betray me and I’ll do the same back

[Biancam13]

I agree with a lot of the women here- if he not only cheated but LIED about it after, he’s a piece of sh** boyfriend in my opinion and he would be dumped. Cheating is bad enough as it is, but lying? Shows you are really deceitful and don’t respect me enough to own up to it.

[Kha0tiic_xo]

I'd leave, because first of all he lied about it which tells me he isn't sorry, if he was he'd have manned up and been honest right after it happened if he felt bad, and second there's no reason to cheat and break someone like that, if you are in a relationship and want to fuck someone else then you break up with them not stay and be a snake!

[Anonymous]

After that I honestly won’t be able to trust him anymore. I would definitely leave the relationship for sure.
If I unlikely decide to stay for whatever reason, I guarantee you that a part of me will always see him as a cheater and liar. I won’t be fully happy in the relationship because I will always be paranoid and my mind will not be at ease.

[Cathy7734]

I would try to understand the reason why he cheated on me.

[Asker]

Would you forgive him?

[Cathy7734]

I believe true forgiveness takes time, energy, and patience. And it's not so much about forgiving him as it is myself. For example, if a dog pisses in the house do you get angry at the dog? And if you got angry wouldn't it be about forgiving yourself? Because dogs do what dogs do. Some partners cheat because that's what they do. And if I do forgive me and him, it doesn't mean I'll leave my doors wide open for him to come back.

[Asker]

Wow great explanation :D

[Anonymous]

I’d instantly leave him. I wouldn’t even want to hear an “explanation”. As soon as he’d tell me I walk out right there and never talk to him again.


If I would find out without him knowing I would first confront him with it (to be 100% sure it’s true), then I’d leave.

[Agape93]

Get myself tested immediately. If I’m still clean, fine and we will break up and I’ll cut his ass out of my life. But if he gave me something, I will kill him.

[GirlyGal20]

Kick him to the curb. If he gave me something.. light his stuff on fire first or smash in his car windows.

[Poppy_girl]

Leave the house break up with him after giving him a piece of mind for not following me after I left...

[Anonymous]

Unless she's a doormat used to been stepped on & has little to no self-respect most women would toss him to the curb. As, I'd hope, any guy would his cheating hoe of a girlfriend.