HOW TO MOVE ON FROM YOUR CHILDHOOD CRUSH?

[drke02]

I always liked this one girl for many years, I was obsessed with her when I talked to her I feel happy. after too many years I decided to confess my feeling because I can't hold this anymore I texted her after 4h she replied but I think her reply means she is not interested or just friends i dont know what to do now?

[dredelirium]

I know it hurts, but try and move on somewhat quickly. Go on a few dates with other women, right now while it still hurts. It will help you feel better so much faster, and more importantly, it will boost your confidence.

It's totally normal if it takes you a while to get over her though, and don't get down on yourself if you don't let go right away or if you feel heartbroken. It's okay. Try to CONSCIOUSLY move your romantic efforts elsewhere. No one will be her, but that's a good thing.. because when you find the right girl, I guarantee she won't make you wait for FOUR HOURS to text you back KNOWING you are agonizing every second.

I bet you're AWESOME, if you guys have been friends that long, and if she's really great.. bet that means you're really great too.. which means you got a shot to find something real elsewhere.

Go out there and meet other girls, I know it hurts now but you'll see what I mean soon enough. I promise you, a crush feels 10 MILLION times better when it is MUTUAL.

*hugs friend*

[drke02]

:( yeah it hurts I never been in a relationship but I was so obsessed with her it just like a relationship I imagined so many things. but the thing that hurt me most is my one-sided love for the past 7 years and it only took 2 sec to finish. I didn't text my whole feeling because somewhere I knew I will make fool of myself I can write about her the whole day... :( I have many friends to talk but still don't have to talk about what inside me I am completely broke. I am glad about your answer it motivates me thank you. :)

[danielp27]

You’ve got a bad case of oneitis my dude... gotta check out the other fish in the sea

[drke02]

yes dude i don't trust there is true love exists except for me and my mom.