Why am I doing this? And is it considered cheating? I have a girlfriend but I keep wanting to follow my ex fling around when I see her out?

[Anonymous]

Then she texted me asking what I wanted and we argued for 5 hours?

[boggboss]

Clealry u have not moved on would your partner be upset if they knew?

[boggboss]

Like if your partner was doing what u have described here would u class it as cheating

[Asker]

would you consider it cheating?

[boggboss]

Yes I would consider it cheating

[Asker]

the following around or the fighting for 5 hours or both?

[boggboss]

Both clearly u are invited in your ex still

[Asker]

invited in your ex still?

[boggboss]

*Invested in your ex

[incognitoinga]

It's cheating in some ways
It's more deceptive though than "cheating"