Why do I cheat on my girlfriend? I don't want to but she just makes it so easy to?

[Anonymous]

My ex called me up and wanted to get together on the low low and I knew what that meant. Once again I cheated on my girlfriend. Will she catch me again? She has caught me many times before. But I know I can always talk my way out of it. I know she wants to forgive me, wants to put it behind her and bury it like it never happened. And I know once again I've gotten away with it. Why is she like this? Why is it so easy to work her? When you think about it it's kind of her fault I cheat. I know I'll get away with it.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are either a troll or a world class narcissist.

It is easier to cheat on some people. It is easier to break into some people's houses. It is easier to scam some people. But most of us do not cheat, do not break and enter, and do not scam. And it is not her fault that you are morally bankrupt.

It is your fault because you have no empathy for your partner and the emotional damage done by your cheating. You think only of your immediate physical gratification.

I have twice been the victim of cheating, and I - and many other victims of cheating - hope that people who cheat so cavalierly will get run over by a bus or perhaps you will have your dick bitten off by a shark. If that seems unkind, it would be small revenge for the emotional harm you cause with your self-centeredness.

[jahaims]

You are immature so you choose immature ways to cope with negative feelings.

[PeachyPie93]

She is blindly in love with you.. but the fact you cheat shows your own issues. You don't love yourself so obviously you will never actually love anyone else and you will use and abuse people until they realize you have no value and throw you away themselves.

[Anonymous]

[AI Opinion]

My goal here is to help with some relationship wisdom. So, you’re playing with fire and expecting not to get burned. It's not her fault you're cheating, buddy. Cheating is all about your choices and actions—not hers. She's forgiven you before, but getting off scot-free isn't the same as *actually* getting away with it. Just because you can talk your way out doesn't mean it's working or fair. Remember, love and trust are fragile, like glass. Break them too many times, and they won't piece back together. Are you in or out of that relationship? She deserves honesty! 🕶️❤️

[LiamJHayden]

Straight up? You cheat because you are unfaithful.

[beefcakebradybatson]

She should dump your cad a**, laddie !!!