Am I wrong to feel like I need to cheat on my girlfriend?

[Finchie40]

My girlfriend and I been butting heads lately and I know she is suffering mental illness menopause etc, Like a flip of a switch she started changing on me the intimacy and affection died down , I feel like her walking punching bag she points her finger at me and criticizes me and belittles me My feelings of concern don’t matter to her she always turns it around that I am this horrible person that I am trying to control her when that isn’t the case at all , I just know she isn’t respecting me like I do her , I have told her I want to break up because things aren’t good between us but she won’t leave , I feel like she is stringing me along until something better comes , I have had talks and talks with her to the point she doesn’t remember half the shit we talked about and she doesn’t remember shit she says to me that is vicious shit, I have told her to leave if she isn’t happy with me anymore , I will walk away from her and then she will come chasing me back when we make up we will have amazing sex and then she will say it’s just sex don’t think everything is fine between us leaving me dumbfounded as to why are you giving me sex if you aren’t in love with me? , So I think to myself she must be a whore , and that she is leaving her options open, I have constant question marks over my head to the point I don’t think I can tolerate this abuse anymore, I am feeling lonely and want to be wanted , to the point a big part of me is open to meeting someone else , Am I wrong to be open to meeting someone else?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Cheating isn't the answer...
If you really want out of this relationship, you'll find a way to get out of it..
If she won't leave you alone, there's always the option of a restraining order if she's abusive..
You may think cheating will make you feel better, but it'll just make you feel worse in the long run..
Concentrate first on getting out of the situation you're in now..
Then when you have things worked out, find someone more compatible, that you can be happy with, that you won't think about cheating on..

[Emerald55346]

I feel like it’s reasonable to feel the way your feeling, it’s hard to give an unbiased opinion without knowing what exactly she is frustrated about but I think it’s important not to cheat, you either walk away completely or stay together and try your hardest. Cheating is just so emotionally damaging to both parties even tho one may not be aware, it damages your character and self respect in my opinion, I’m the kind of person where I just find it foul to sleep with someone else, if what your considering is physically cheating, then go back to the same bed with another regardless of what they have done, even if they have cheated on you it’s degrading to stoop to that level. I think it’s hard to get out of toxic situations but the reason there here is to some how make us a better person, we either become the people that hurt us or better than them.

[ShadezMcgee]

Bro, you aren't doing yourself or your worth as a man by staying with a woman who is putting you in a toxic environment. Break up with her, do not result to cheating and be that guy. Break up with her, but start to emotionally distance yourself and start finding for a place to shack up so you can leave without her being around you.

If you guys live together, who has the lease/deed in their name?

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'd say find someone new and then drop her like a bad habit. Chicks do that shit all the time and they won't even be fighting. From the sound of it, she's acting like a chick that is cheating already. I'm not saying to cheat like chicks do... just find some options you can hop onto when it comes time.

[DizzyDesii]

Breakup first. Dont be that dude. You’re clearly unhappy. I notice us aquarius have a hard time breaking out of toxic shit. We find it hard to escape and often wait for the person to break up with us just so we feel less guilty. Fck that. End it with her before you start cheating. Its so much easier for us to emotionally cheat then physically. But just end it already

[boggboss]

Stope being a clown and break up with her u are clearly not happy and its your own responsibility to change that to make yourself happy

[dharris82]

Yes, you are wrong. If you want to cheat end it. If you care about her and want to stay together, be committed and go to counseling... relationships aren't sunshine and rainbows and sex won't last forever - you are getting older every day. Relationships aren't gauged on sex alone. If you are even considering this I don't believe you should be in any relationship.

[Gent207]

You two need to go to couples therapy and read some books.
Might I recommend the following:
Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Love & Respect by Emerson Eggerichs

[Emiliamazing]

If the relationship is not working for you or if you don’t want to continue it, then you should end it. Move on to another person who makes you happy, don’t complicate the situation by cheating

[litty]

Ask yourself why you feel you need to cheat.

Is it to hurt her? Because yes it would hurt her.

Is it to make yourself feel better? Because no, you will feel worse as you will lose respect for yourself and from others around.

[driven159]

If you have to cheat, then you need to leave cheating doesn't solve anything but make you a cheater

[TheSpaceGnome]

Dump her, never have sex with her ever again, and go find someone who is sane and doesn't fuck people they don't love.

[TheSpaceGnome]

But don't cheat, otherwise you are just as bad, and you will screw it up with the next girl.

[Juxtapose]

lol censorship city over here! 😂

[skyeee_]

dont be those mean dudes that would rather cheat to cause chaos than to end it for good

[Shamalien]

If she still hates you after truly good sex then it’s fucked

[bootieclapper9000]

haven't you looked into redpill and mgtow

relationships are fake

[Blackcosmo]

Break up because cheating isn't the answer.

[Agape93]

Uh, yeah. Cheating is always wrong.

[In_Trance]

ask your girlfriend this; she'll tell you

[jahaims]

Duh.

[jimmy2]

Yes it is