Which is a bigger commitment to you, marriage or kids?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

Children are more needy than most adults but taking care of kids is easier than taking care of a husband or wife because humans are genetically programmed to take care of children so it does not feel like a burden as much as it would if you are taking care of an adult.

[kyleelyn199723]

Kids. Marriage means absolutely nothing these days. People literally get married for the one day wedding and then despise each other after that day. Kids are a life time commitment.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, kids are a slightly bigger responsibility. Because they're children, so they're totally dependent on you. And you're raising the next generation of humans. There's a huge significance to that. But that doesn't in any way discount the gravity of marriage.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Adam1978]

I would say marriage because kids take you as you are, much easier to deal with. The marriage on other can be a much broader spectrum. And for them you might never be good enough.

[Iron_Man]

It’s marriage then after that the kids are a huge responsibility so you have put yourself on a very serious schedule To earn money for the kids and give them all the time they need

[cloud9vortex1234]

Of course, kids since your kids are your kids even in divorce.

[LiamSawyer]

Both, for me marriage comes before kids.

[HawkPerception]

Kids is a much bigger responsibility.

[AmeerX]

Both

[In_Trance]

marriage

[jofares]

Kids

[JesseJayNeak]

Somewhere in between