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Have you ever hated and loved someone at the same time?

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  • Cynicaldreamer
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    Yes! The scale. We have a very strong love, mostly hate, relationship.

    ... what? I know it's not a person, but it still counts!!!
    When my weight goes down, I love it. But when it says I've gained weight: so much hatred.

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    • coachTanthony
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      I hear eliminating Ice Cream can help. :+)-

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    • Cynicaldreamer
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      Ice cream contains milk... which is good for you. I see no problem there.

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    • coachTanthony
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      @Cynicaldreamer bahahahahaahaha

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  • Fatherhere901
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    Have you ever noticed that you never fight what is someone you don't wanna be around? Seriously, the only people that you fight with are the ones that you're sympathetic with, Miley admire, or really have a fun time around. That's because the people that you are fighting with are the ones that you hope the most for. The people that you want everything good to happen too. You never fight with someone that you have no hope for, simply because you walk away from the situation because there's nothing in it for you. Walking away from something or someone that means nothing to you. Kinda like the "flight" part of the "fight or flight" situation.

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  • JaeMercury
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    I am in a relationship or situationship like that at the moment. I believe she has some kind of imbalance mentally and has not been diagnosed. I am not being a jerk. I am being super serious. She goes through behavioral cycles that are incredibly hurtful and damaging to all her interpersonal relationships. She doesn't see it. It makes things hard to trust. At times I find myself saying that I hate her but in reality I hate the choices she makes.

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  • TessCasie
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    That’s dysfunctional relationship. A healthy relationship won’t have you hating your partner cause you live in harmony. Somehow people think just cause you’re having silly arguments means it’s love. It just means y’all aren’t compatible and cause of sexual intimacy got your sound judgment clouded.

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  • XimenaV
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    I'm sure this is just talking about romantic love but if not my relationship with my siblings can be like that some time. I'm the oldest and always expected to be the bigger person no matter what and it's hard sometimes but when push comes to shove I love them a lot and would do anything to keep them safe and healthy.

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  • electromagnetic
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    My ex. We were good for each other and equally as toxic. There were days when we would literally hate each other for breathing knowing damn well we were together for all the right and wrong reasons.

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    • coachTanthony
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      Been there done that.

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  • Anonymous
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    Yes I have, I was in a really rocky relationship and I think he would just both upset each other to the point where we wanted want to speak to each other for days , but that had a lot to do with our maturity back then, we were constantly on and off until I had given all I could and decided to call it quits after 4 long years.

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  • Anonymous
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    Yeah, well I feel in love with him but I hate parts of him (like his terrible communication style). Drives me NUTS. I get so angry at times with how cold he can sound or ways he just doesn’t realize how his behavior affects me. But, there’s no one I’d rather give my heart to. In the words of Miley Cyrus- you make me laugh, you make me cry, I guess both I’ll have to buy

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  • NathanDavis m
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    I have not experienced this, hating is something I just don't do, not towards others anyway. I don't get myself into a position in which something like this would be possible, and then I've been very lucky that life hasn't pushed me this far either (knocking on wood.)

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  • PaynefulPleasures
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    Yes being in a narcissitic relationship is just that, a love hate relationship 😔

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  • Xoxocutekitty
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    Yes and it was toxic. Don't date people who you love to hate. When the love runs dry there's only a hateful person looking into the mirror.

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  • 1stranger
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    No, I haven't.
    But this is possible. No problem😊. You can hate someone. But that person may become one of your loves later on. This is life🤷‍♀️

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  • Wiredone
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    I hated and loved my parents when I was growing up. I loved them because they were my parents but I hated how they were always on my back about doing better. I understand now why they did it.

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  • InventorofWarp
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    Of course, the person you love most is just someone you hate in a different way from your enemies.

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  • The_Outlaw
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    Xper 7 Age: 44
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    Sadly, I hate her more than I love her. Saying 'I love you' to her was the biggest mistake I think I've ever made. Only thing she loved was the attention.

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  • Anonymous
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    Yes, although... I'm not sure if what I felt/feel was love, or just my emotions being manipulated

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    • Unbeatable
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      Love isn't emotions

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    • Anonymous
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      @Unbeatable then what would you call it?

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    • Unbeatable
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      It can't be explained

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    • Anonymous
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      @Unbeatable love is an emotion

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    • MissAli85
      MissAli85
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      I can so relate to this

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  • Nicegirldaqui
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    Xper 5 Age: 22
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    Yeah, we discussed and still wanted each other's company.

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    • herbekahxo
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      hmmmmmmmm sounds off

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  • pleasestopthis
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    Yes, I felt like this towards my mom for a long time.

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  • SewerDemon
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    Yes, sometimes my sister can be super annoying and I hate her sometimes, but at the same time I still always love her

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  • Miah02
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    Naw. They annoyed me but never hated them

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    • coachTanthony
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      That's a good thing.

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  • TommyMountainFigure
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    Not quite. I mean I loved her but she hated me!

    It didn't end well

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  • Anonymous
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    No. I don't tend to hate anyone. I don't have a high opinion about the human race in general. One or two I love.

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  • Devlaw5
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    I’ve disliked someone and loved them at the same time. But never hated.

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  • JesseJayNeak
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    My apprentice partner. The hate was only professional because I wanted the boss' attention. Never had beef, just competition

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  • Tiptoetamm
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    Yes my mother we have a love hate relationship

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  • exitseven
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    No, but I can see how it would be possible.

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  • Browneye57
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    Yes. It's called MARRIAGE. :)

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  • Anonymous
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    Yea sometimes it's annoying

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  • Iron_Man s
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    Maybe on the site here but not love

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  • BUNroaster
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    Xper 6 Age: 29
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    Yes pretty much everyone

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  • MDollarBill
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    It's called "marriage."

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  • Gwenhwyfar
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    Maybe

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  • potatoooo
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    Xper 3 Age: 20
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    Myself

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  • Shihab91
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    Xper 7 Age: 34
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    no... when i hate someone i never love them

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  • darkteddy
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    Xper 2 Age: 38
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    My wife.

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  • EaterPeter
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    Yes.

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    • EaterPeter
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      Thanks for likes!

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  • JustMe62
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    Xper 4 Age: 63
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    Nope. Is that possible?

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  • iseekpinetrees
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    Kind of

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  • IObject
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    Yes and it leans more towards hate

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  • anon1903
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    Yes. My daddy.

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  • Dayman343
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    My wife

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  • princeofromance
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    Yes!

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  • cvnmou
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    Xper 2 Age: 27
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    Mkkai

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