Do women really like men that do chores or cooking? (Page 2)

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In my last relationship, I did most of the cooking and cleaning stuff. Regularly or holidays too. Her behavior was not so pleasant and she cheated at last. I don't feel like doing that much for future relationships.  Women say men don't help them or take care of the house or cook, but they take them for granted when they do. I feel like women respect men more in old-fashioned traditional relationships.

Sweetener_ · Answer

Yea It's nice. If a guy knows how to do chores, it tells me that he knows how to clean after himself. If he knows how to cook as well, it tells me that he can take care of himself withouth a woman doing it for him.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes 100%! Personally for me I’m a major foodie so I know damn well I need to marry someone who’s a chef , baker , or someone who’s just good at cooking in general! I’m not a huge fan of people who are stuck in like the early 1800s who act like woman should be doing all the cooking and cleaning. I know that if I came home from work one day and saw the house clean or to see dinner done then I truly would appreciate it.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

It's an even arrangement in my relationships. Splitting the chores & taking turns on the cooking (although my SO doesn't cook unless it's out of a box 😂) if both parties take responsibility, it won't be so bad.

0112358 · Answer

I think if you're completely useless it can build resentment and make a woman lose interest (sometimes).  but being super helpful doesn't turn women on.

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

It’s not that women like men to do chores it’s that women legitimately don’t understand how much harder every single man works than she does every single day. Women don’t want to be adults, they want all the perks of being an adult without any of the downsides. Most women are still not emotionally teenagers and will never advance beyond that.

Darkrose32 · Answer

Yes us women who are adults love it when our man helps out. It's about being a team especially when you have kids

SheerKiss3 · Answer

Yes we like men like that. Mostly because it means he really appreciate his girl , and dont think that is something just girls do so that is cute.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

YES. There is nothing more attractive than a man who can take care of himself and myself, if necessary.

bobalife · Answer

Yes, it is sexy and very appreciated. It's also really nice when you guys get to do it together as a team. Don't let your ex be the reason you can't be loving to the next girl as they are two different people.

Dargil · Answer

Sometimes. Some women are picky on outcomes like laundry and house cleaning and prefer you leave some things to them. Cooking is something else. I make Irish/Italian spaghetti and she eats it ravenously.

Haru_chan · Answer

Not cooking but at least I’d like a man that can help me in the house. I can’t be a woman with super powers that can do so many things together at once besides work.

SnakeBoop · Answer

u mean, women are more attracted to men who know basic skills to look after themselves? It feels kinda obvious.

Anonymous · Answer

Women like men to be men - but part of that is when men surprise them, and help out. If you start out day 1 acting like a housewife... that's your fault, and yes she's going to treat you like a bitch.

doopayo · Answer

Dishes and chores aren’t limited to a gender, men aren’t babies they should be able to help in the house

Anonymous · Answer

Although you were unlucky or chose badly in your last relationship, I tend to agree with your assessment regarding the traditional male role. Women'll probably swear blind it's not true though.

Utahred · Answer

I hate cooking and I LOVE that hubby cooks. I also love when hubby helps with chores. It's a turn on. It means he is kind and sensitive and knows that he needs to pull his weight. I work as well. If I didn't work, I would do all the chores and cook. So men, if you want to turn your lady on, empty out those dishes!

Anonymous · Answer

You bet they do!
Got laid more than once because I knew how to cook. Had to learn to take care of the house while I was at university living alone. Today I am married and split the house chores. My wife couldn't be happier. She even has more energy later in the day for bedroom fun thanks to it!

Dazedx0 · Answer

Id like somebody I could cook with but man's not doing all the cooking I love cooking

KrakenAttackin · Answer

What man doesn't do chores and cook at least some of the time. Normally the only men who don't are working a shit-ton of overtime and simply don't have enough hours in a day.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

No I just expect most grown adults to have basic life skills

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