Women say men don't help them or take care of the house or cook, but they take them for granted when they do. I feel like women respect men more in old-fashioned traditional relationships.
Not in a relationship but in every relationship I've witnessed the major issue is the man not taking care of himself. Stuff like feeding himself. Independence is great in that your partners don't have to worry after you, but co-dependancy can be beautiful in ways such as you preparing a sit down meal for the two of you or her doing the laundry for the home. The issues occur when one person is left to do everything and expected to do everything, and that should be brought up with the partner. Personally I think it's hot as fuck when someone isn't turned off home chores and it makes me wanna return the effort, like doing the washing or taking care of the dogs, ya know.
As for your ex, she's a cunt who treated you wrong and you deserve someone who will run you a hot bath and make you hot cocoa when you come home from a bad day and will inspire you to want to cook a fancy pasta dish for them. Don't cry over her bitch ass. Take the time to move on from her nasty shit and try again prince charming! You deserve better than a two timing varmin!
She wasn’t much skilled in cooking and I started living outside home after 18 . Growing up my parents were busy too , I had to mostly take care of myself. I am not crying over her. I broke contact. She told me guys like us are only good after thirty. That’s eating me much , perhaps that’s kinda true in our world
@asker well than she's a double cunt for thinking your only good after thirty and I hope she has fun babysitting a man child for a husband the rest of her life. You're amazing as you are, and there are plenty of women who would kill for their partner to have the initiative alone to take care of domestic tasks, across all ages. Find someone more worthy of your time hun
I completely agree with @GenFem19! Another thing I thought of while reading you two is her thinking your only good after 30 is complete bullshit dont give that another thought trust me!!! She will have a big reality check when she realizes how good she had it with you she will probably come crying back dont take her back ever! She will never appreciate and love you the way you deserve! there's much better out there that will appreciate and encourage you!! I am guessing her parents babied her and she has no idea how cruel men can be! You dodged a bullet and you have dignity and respect... you deserve that in return! Things can only get better from here!
@PeacefulRainDrop I did broke off contact and after few months she tried to contact me too multiple times but it’s totally over for me.