Why do dedicated partners decide to cheat on me?

[Anonymous]

I keep getting into relationships with women that are very dedicated to to ther previous boyfriend. However when they date me they end up cheating on me and dumping me. Then they get into another serious and dedicated relationship How do I keep getting this rotten luck? They seem like very genuine and trustworthy women.

[Anonymous]

You don't give them what they want in a relationship. You're "safe", so you make a perfect short term rebound guy to go to when they are hurt.

They go for a type of guy, A. They like him a lot. But man A hurts her. In her fear, she craves someone safe more than actually attracts her. Enter you, man B.

Man B is safe. He will never hurt her. But he's boring. He makes a safe place and she heals.

Then she leaves B and goes back to what ATTRACTS HER.

[Asker]

So how do I not be the safe guy?

[Opinion Owner]

That is a whole other question that you should ask and pay attention to the answers. These reply boxes limit to 500 characters.

In a nutshell though, stop putting her first all the time, put yourself forward more, act like you don't give a shit. You have your own fun life to lead, and if she wants to come along, good, but she better bring something to the table. Respect yourself more. Whatever you do, don't put her on a pedestal. She can only look down on you from up there.

[Anonymous]

Men cheat for hotter girls and women cheat for money y

[Yourfriend2021]

Welcome to the world of most women.

[Asker]

Well thats disappointing to hear.

[Yourfriend2021]

Yes it is, that's life in today's world.

[In_Trance]

there's something that you're not providing them.

[Twalli]

You are a rebound