Why do men cheat even though you already have your partner who support you from Zero to something?

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shaysh87 · Accepted Answer

because you married an asshole. It was your choice. If you marry an asshole, it does not matter if you do everything in the world for him, he will remain an asshole.

I knew of a very sad story where a Caribbean woman who married the love of her life. She dedicated her entire life to cooking, cleaning, serving his every need. He cheated on her with her best friend. Secretly had a kid with her best friend. Her best friend was a hot bombshell compared to her. She even took care of the kid for her best friend for 11 years. They frequently visited her house. She never knew about the truth until one day a neighbor told her about it.
When she asked her husband, he admitted to it. Then she had immediately passed out on the floor. She was sent to the ER. After that, she kicked him out the house. He was homeless for 3 years. Then one day he showed up at her door in desperation pleading his children for some warm soup and a bed. His kids didn't have the heart to watch him die so they let him in. Since she acknowledged his children's concern for their father, she allowed him to remain the house for the remaining 8 years of her life before she passed away from a heart attack. They never divorced.

Less than a year after she passed away from a heart attack at the age of 50, her husband who was 65 years old, decided to remarry a 20 yr old woman (with 8 kids), less than a year after her passing. Her kids were entirely shocked and mortified. They haven't even gotten over her death yet and he has already remarried. They felt as if there couldn't be a bigger betrayal of their mother. The 20 yr old married for money and a US green card while he married for sex. It was not a marriage made of love.

Be very careful about who you marry. If you marry the wrong guy, you can really screw up your life. Stay away from perverts who only date women at least 15 years younger or guys who sleep around, date a man with good character, loyal personality, someone that you can trust that will stay faithful to you forever. Go for a guy who does housework, is a good father to children, dedicated family man. Don't only go for a guy who is the funniest, most charismatic, richest, highest status, best looking because if he does not have decent character, he will screw you over.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because there’s no repercussions or punishment for it. They wouldn’t be doing it if the punishment was DEATH, or getting their HEADS CHOPPED OFF, or getting their BALLS CHOPPED OFF.

They do it because they just CAN. A woman on the other hand is less LIKELY to cheat because since sex causes the birth of a child her emotions get tied. She becomes attached to the man.

And to a woman the repercussions is PREGNANCY! If a man leaves you.. you and the baby have no support.

Sex is completely different from a man to a woman. For men it’s like TAKING A PEE, for women it’s a whole body experience and attachment/ bonding.

demonics · Accepted Answer

Why do men cheat even though you already have your partner who support you from Zero to something?

Ever been to one of these? Thank women's lib for the free, uninhibited, consequence free sex. In the old days, if someone saw your man sneaking into some other woman's back door (heh) the whole town would know about it by morning. Now? Pff the local harlots are in harlot #87954 DM's asking her how big was it?
Men like new puss... women control the culture. Its your job to create a culture that checks men's natural urges. Y'know, something those evil Christians were trying to do when it came to abortion and birth control. But, you guys wanted hot girl summer. Freedom meet consequences.

bademoxy · Accepted Answer

my first relationship was with a damaged woman who cheated on me the 1st chance she got, later attempting paternity fraud against me after I had split because of her infidelity. There's lots of philandering guys out there, but all i know is that the monogamous marriage I'd hoped for is long past as I spent all my youth-and middle age- building my career BEFORE finding a decent low mileage/no kids woman to settle down with. Now I'm a senior. the only available women all had brats in tow from POAs they banged.

TransAm85 · Answer

I used to escort and strip for a little bit in my early 20's. Most my tricks were married/had a g/f. Their wives were either too busy w/the kids/work so sex was the least of their concern, they had been together so long the sex had gotten routine/boring, the men worked long hours so their wives were already sleeping when they got home, and many wives had just become selfish bitches where sex was an exchange. The husband supplies $, the wife gives up the pussy, so it had become an obligation. But if the man really loves u, he won't look elsewhere.

jazque · Answer

To be fair your question should be "why fo PEOPLE cheat. I know a lot of selfish narsassistic women. And that is just why. Because they are selfish and self involved people. Who only focus on their own satisfication and happiness. How else could you destroy someone elses soul like that. There is no excuse that you could give me that i will except.
Not happy? get out of relationship
Not in love ? get out of relationship
Not enough sex or attention communicate, experiment... or... get out of relationship.
Cowardly and heartless. Both men and women... and even "other" lol

VikingWarLord · Answer

Monogamy is NOT NATURAL

Read the book called "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan.

The whole world of relationship dynamics will finally be clear to you and you'll understand why the divorce rate and infidelity rates are so high. We are not monogamous creatures at all.

Adronicus · Answer

There's reasons why we are attracted to the people we are. Patterns growing up, much of it subconscious. I used to be a fixer until I went on a wild streak with psychology books in an attempt to fix myself. Good men exist but are generally perceived as stupid & not valued because they choose to sacrifice for others instead of serving themselves. Some never learn & others it takes time to understand boundaries & also how to enforce them.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I will use the word 'people' instead of 'men' because women cheat too. Maybe it is just a cheap thrill. I don't know, but I don't think they realise the consequences, the damage they inflict by doing so.

bootieclapper9000 · Answer

you women only want the top 15% of hottest men

so those men have the pick of the litter
they can cheat as much as they want

a new girl will be on his lap in an instant
if the girl leaves lol

have fun fighting with 80% of the female population
over that small percent

DavidRaul · Answer

They are not men they are "boys". I mean who would cheat on a woman who supports you in every way possible, who is the reason behind your success , only incompetent men do that.

Anonymous · Answer

You spelt women wrong. Women don’t support men, men support women.
But...
SOME men have sex with newly offered pussy because it is a rare occasion to have that choice. It has literally zero to do with his happiness in his relationship or love for his partner.

WOMEN cheat, because she is “missing something”, is unsure of her love, is questioning if she wants to be with the partner or not, is weighing her options, etc.

USLegionary · Answer

Women cheat when they are looking for a new man, men do when the opportunity presents itself.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Even if there's no problems.. People cheat because they want to try something different... Or... they lost that " spark " in the beginning of the relationship and they want to re live it again with someone

Anonymous · Answer

They don't have a character or a soul.
They only have a dick who can even have sex with female animal species.
They think and breathe from dick.
That's why nothing gets registered on their useless brains and hearts.

spartan55 · Answer

Why do women always have to 'understand' why some guy is a piece of shit? It's so fucking annoying. Someone does me wrong I never gaf WHY.

Guy__ · Answer

I haven't cheated on my diet since I was in middle school, you can expect me to have developed won't-power.

OddBeMe · Answer

“Grass is greener”, or FOMO syndrome, I presume. Danger fantasy of trying to have an affair like they do in the movies.

Guys who have affairs rarely enjoy their mistresses as much as their wives. They just want extra sex somewhere else.

EmmaMary · Answer

Because they more often than not are being led by their knobs.

sheikalana · Answer

There's something else missing or maybe they just have the tendency of wanting to experience having sex with other people.

JakeS00 · Answer

Some men do that because they never were taught or picked up on what faithfulness is.

bean2k21 · Answer

Women have vaginas and booties that are very nice to have sex with.

Anonymous · Answer

For the same reason women do it. And at your age women do it more than men.

Anonymous · Answer

don't bother trying to understand psychopathic narcissists--they do it because they're bad people. there are two options, cut them out of your life, or kill them

RuthlessAggression · Answer

Why do women do the same TO GET AWAY WITH IT

monkeynutts · Answer

What? Zero to something. What? Men cheat because they can

Anonymous · Answer

Because they can Cuz they like variety Cuz they don't equate fidelity with love Any questions?

Twalli · Answer

Because your partner doesn't or can't fulfill everything you want.

lofii · Answer

Men are meant to have multiple wives.  Well the high value males are.

noohair · Answer

Men are genetically dispossessed to spread their DNA. It is a caveman brain thing.

madetostroke · Answer

you are speaking  for a small percentage of women lol

Anonymous · Answer

Because your pussy is drier than sandpaper on the moon

Anonymous · Answer

i don't cheat and my partner has never once said anything supportive to me at all

Anonymous · Answer

Most men are weak, so they can't help themselves.

Whatever2929292 · Answer

Some people are scummy

Pinay_ako · Answer

Opportunititties 🤣

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Because not satisfied.

hyperben · Answer

boredom most likely...

jahaims · Answer

People cheat because they are trash

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Why do women cheat when we support them?

Prof_Don · Answer

Lack of appreciation, sexual variety

TotallyAlmost · Answer

Guys who cheat are just low in self esteem.

goodgirlsteven · Answer

guys are born to spread their seed Lol!

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Because they are men.

Zolly99999 · Answer

I have never cheated first !!!

Anonymous · Answer

We cheat because we can

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