Do powerful men who do favours for women always expect sex in return?

Question

An older, divorced top rank law enforcement official did me a big favour. Now he wants my company. How screwed am I?  Some tips how to handle him à la see see no touch are greatly appreciated.

humanearth · Accepted Answer

He wants to buy your company or wants you for company as in a couple.

If buying: if you want to sell. Make a fair counter offer

If the other; Raise lots hell if your not willing, he has a lot to loise but it will backfire, be ready for bullshit

Like my best friend in the whole world. She butted heads with some city mayor. This mayor wanted his dick suck after a first date and she would not do it.

Little time goes by. And She ends up with a bunch of code valations on her house.

She got a fine from the city about her house.

I had to go to her house with a couple of buddies and fix her house. To stop the work orders from turning into fines.

Before that one date, she never had a problem with her house. It took him being voted out of office for the bullshit to stop

Another shitty thing was. She wanted to sue him for hassment but no lawer would take the case.
All because she wouldn't do a little sucky sucky.

Back then there was no #meto movement, heck the internet was still new.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

That is not a powerful man that is a manipulator any music you take somebody in a hard spot it will do whatever they can to get what they want powerful man is the man who helped you and smile and walk away when you because they wanted to do it without asking for anything in return that is a powerful man

SnakeBoop · Accepted Answer

I mean, regardless if they did you a favour, they cannot then demand for sex in return. Perhaps make it a thing of being out in public to give company rather than behind closed doors, or take precautions such as checking recording laws and recording if you meet etc

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Regardless of his expectations, you are not obligated to do anything you don't want to do. He has no recourse if you refuse. It's not like he can file a complaint against you.

The-Wise-Phoenix · Answer

Men with money and power expect everything to be on their terms. Many women who chase men like this don't seem to understand this. He will expect her to be submissive and obedient. This includes her licking and sucking anything he tells her to lick and suck.
He can get away with this because at any givin time there are about 20 other top tier women waiting in line to have a piece of his money and affluent lifestyle.
So if she doesn't comply he will drop kick her through the up rights and take the next woman in line

RasberrySlushPuppy · Answer

Many want to support others and are naturally kind. They have zero expectation. Obviously abusing someone's kindness and using them makes that individual a bad person, dont be that person. Actually show your appreciation or you will lose a good friendship. Funnily enough i met someone who was perfect in every way but they lacked this one character trait that lost them friends. When i subtly told them they improved on it but that friendship fizzled soon after, my unconscious didn't feel happy that it was genuine.

Bean2k · Answer

Many citizens who are victims of law enforcement abuse of power are left feeling they have no recourse against the officer who injured them and abused his or her power as a police officer. It is important for these people to know that just because a person has a badge and has been given some authority, they are not above the law. Among reports, excessive force complaints against police officers were the most common, followed by sexual misconduct complaints against police officers, then fraud and theft reports against police officers. 1 in 1000 officers are accused of sexual misconduct, whereas in the general public, it's 1 in 3000. The odds are slightly not in your favor, but hopefully he has respect for the law that he serves to enforce.

exitseven · Answer

I know a lot of cops. I'm betting on he wants sex. You need to be firm from the beginning if this guy tries to make a move on you. I know you are in a foreign country and things might work differently there but I bet cops are pretty much the same wherever you go.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Plenty of good guys out there help people out without expecting anything in return.
In your case what is the worst that can happen if you reject him? Has he turned a blind eye to something you did that could land you in deep trouble with the law?

slatyb · Answer

Not necessarily. I just sent one of my musician friend $100 because they were eating out of food banks so I figured they needed it. I don't expect to have sex with her. If a woman is interesting, I will invite her to dinner just for the pleasure of the conversation. I'm married and wouldn't have sex with her even if she offered.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nope, the idea of being in a position of influence or power is to be able to mentor, support, help others.

bowenw · Answer

Some powerful men may expect sexual favors in this situation. These kind of guys often have a history of unscrupulous behavior, so you may be able to find out if he does by Googling him.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

No, not always. A lot of those types of guys also want someone around who isn't a manipulative shithead.

Hathor · Answer

Just ask him what he expects in return for the favor So you know

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I'm sorry to be the mirror of bad news but 80% of the time they expect something in return

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Most likely, we expect sex.

As long as he's not legally or professionally obliged to do such a favor to you, but out of his own judgement, they might be expecting sex and in such cases there's nothing much you can legally do about it.

Best thing one should do is think twice before accepting favours

Shy_Steve · Answer

Try telling your Friends and Family what he did for you then see what he does after a while, If he comes on to you or propositions you then tell your Friends and Family about and if he keeps doing it then call the police because that is illegal.

Anonymous · Answer

C - there are lots of good men who help others out of kindness and don't expect anything in return.

elizamichale1 · Answer

yup thats the expectation i guess

Gnome0 · Answer

Depends on the man, I'd say.

Diya010 · Answer

They are lonely at the top and want friendship.

BlacklightShade · Answer

Nothing is free.

JennieF · Answer

Usually.

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