My boyfriend says he wants to "pound" me and "rail me"?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone! So my boyfriend and I have been together for literally only a week or two and he's starting to be freaky, don't get me wrong it doesn't bother me but like why? for example I texted him yesterday and he texted me "mami ill make u into a waterfall and keep pounding your😼😏" or "I'll rail u to where u can't walk for 2 weeks." That's just some of it. He also went from calling me "babe" to "Mami" overall just completely just changed. When we first met he was a good friend of mine then poof! freaky mode activated! What's funny is he also hasn't kissed me yet but wanting to "pound" me & rail me. He always talks about my "😼" He's admitted that I turn him on and honestly he turns me on too. I love him but I feel like just a little he's only using me for sex even though we haven't had IT. Please help!

[livin_hi_808]

He needs to first STOP WATCHING PORN for at least a week or so. Tell him to watch some romcoms with you over video call on messenger if you can't together. What you want to do is try to clear his mind from the shit he thinks girls want to talking and eventually fuckin you the way that you want. Worse case scenario is he fucks you and hurts you and not just your pussy... Or butthole... You never know. You don't wanna cut him loose if you like him. Second if you don't mind it but want to "customize" what he saying then try sexting. Its a great way to communicate desires to your partner without the awkwardness of face-to-face or overexcited interruptions. Beforehand, try to think up some of the things that arouse you. If you're kinda inexperienced or just not really sure what you like but don't know what you don't like, I suggest that you WATCH some porn lol. Go to the menu then choose tags or categories. From there you just scroll and tap on whatever piques your interest, copy a few links and either send them to him (or the ones you don't want him to butcher verbally) and build off that. It'll turn him on and help you get your sexual desires better expressed through him when it comes sir jerks a lot lol.
Hope this helps. Make sure express how you feel. Not attempting to blame victims of sex assault but with him saying things about physically fuckin you up through sex, this kid has a very skewed view of pleasure other than self-pleasure from your pain and if you can catch it before he hurts you not knowing any better and/or ends up with a sex charge then that's a negative preventable outcome for you both.
If you like dude and y'all started out as friends, you owe it to him to help if you can. The next may not be as wise or lucky if you don't.
Aloha

[litty]

Lol like take you out for dinner first, right?

What girls need to understand is the power of the pussy. Guys will do anything for it. If you tell him to do your chores, he will take care of it. If you tell him to find a job before you become serious, then he will be on it.

So if you feel like he's taking it too fast, trying too hard, and not acting like the guy you wanted to be in a relationship with, then YOU must tell him to chill/stop/act more romantic/ less douchy/ be more of himself.

[PeacefulRainDrop]

I wouldn't put up with that at all!! Dont even continue to continue to see this man.. I am afraid hed be possessive, abusive, controling, degrading, and have no respect for you. Its like its all a game to him cause of the switch of personality. wouldn't matter how good looking he is if he treats you like crap... I wouldn't deal with that shit!! You deserve better.. if you want this guy... then next time he says something like that then say ahh please stop talking to me like this.. it makes me very uncomfortable.. he might think its cool its what women like... gotta teach him how to treat you. If he laughs tells you its okay you gotta loosen up run for the hills and never return. You don't want someone by your side just to have someone there.. you want someone that adds value to your life!!

[PeacefulRainDrop]

I blocked guys that spoke that way in chats to me.. yes I have on here too...

But a friend did a switch like that too.. when he said those things I said WTF... Thats not like you! he's like dont girls like it. Told me guys make beats with their guy friends on who can sleep with the most girls.. or if you sleep with her ill give you money.. he told me all 3 of them wanted me to sleep with them I guess I was the only girl in the class that didn't sleep with any of them.. he started to change at school in the way he behaved to the point I would see him and run the other direction hed call me sugar tits I was the first one to start with a class of 9 girls including me its messed up.. I said thanks for letting me know I avoided the other two already but this guy and I went to church together hed at one way and at school another. I told him I can't be your friend anymore you cut this crap 24/7 or were not speaking.. none of them won the bet.. they had no idea I was a virgin.. I wanted to wait until marriage.. knew if I said I was it be worse since someone else did.. I basically read books then I got an antisocial label.. I just didn't like any of them.. well 1 guy was always nice to me.. hed just laugh along as it would happen then after school it was just the two of us for my grade he started helping me with math.. then he ended up standing up for me got the whole sugar tits to stop abd every time a guy smacked my ass I would kick them in their shin or smack their ask back as hard as I could and told them to fuck off I went to a private Christian school for most of my life it was a horrible experience.

[PeacefulRainDrop]

Just saying wasn't until I started standing up for myself or laughing at their jokes with them about me and make them worse like im gonna dump that water all over you if you dont do this or that.. Id always have water and milk to drink for lunch.. id say well thats alright leaves my milk to dump over you.. I dont mind being wet like I had a shower but youd need a shower.. or Id say you wanna dump water pkay hows that a threat why not do the milk cause then id stink... litterly and figurely. They want me to make fun of the one thar stood up for me I walked away told them to fuck off every time I said fuck I had to do 10 laps around the school... then went to a new school in grade 10 my biggest bully was trying to be my friend.. I just lets not and pretend we did.. She got bulied so what goes around comes around.. I got bulied some, I was popular and pressured to bully I always stuck up for the one being bullied except for once the very first opportunity I had to make fun of people there was this boy with one little braided string of his hair in the back with a red bead on it.. He would hold the string a lot so I joined in a calling him rat tale... I regretted it and seeing him cry and run to his mom.. saying he's going to cut it off.. I apologized next day at camp he opened his bag showed it to me in a ziplock bag and said his dad died. His dad had dreadlocks abd he wanted long hair like his dad too.. so he got his hair cut like his dad wanted since he couldnt take proper care of his hair. His dads favorite color was red. I gave him a hug sad im soo sorry! He said he understands everyone else is doing it.. he said you better go sit somewhere else everyone will be here soon.. I moved to wear I usually sitted..

[PeacefulRainDrop]

then when it started I remembered what Elias did for me so I did it for Anthony.. I yelled ahh had everyones attention I said leave him the fuck alone and got my stuff and moved to sit by him the rest of camp I got bullied too but I rather be on that side f the fenced if im expected to make fun of someone.. a lot of times I wasn't mean by what I said but I was mean by my actions not infront of them at least but being the loser is what I did and enjoyed it! No feelings of I shouldn't have done that... you come at me with a burn im gonna burn you right back! The biggest lie ever told is we dont tolerate bullying here! They do nothing about the bullying just turn a blind eye

[Funnygirl1500]

Ha ha. He will probably cum within 30 seconds of pounding you, then brag to all his friends.

[Slayerrrrrrr]

That's a huge compliment and confidence boost. You know how many girls would love that kind of attention? Women going through midlife crisis long for that kind of attention from a guy. Take it for what it is. Nothing wrong with being a prude but just don't be a tease...

[PatrickFusion]

He sounds like he's being too aggressive maybe? It all depends on how you want to be treated.
If you like this then fine, but he definitely doesn't sound like he's being thoughtful and very respectful.

[Browneye57]

If he's your age then yeah, he's a fukboy. Just can't wait to get in your panties. Or even if he's a little order, same deal.
And you're dumb enough to fall for it.

[CoolGuy7532]

You should tell him you want to take things slower. If he refuses, dump him.

[FunkyMonkee]

Pound means he wants to fuck you hard. No idea what rail is.

[Justaguy30]

He probably only wants sex. If he hasn't kissed you yet but wants sex it kinda sounds like he isn't boyfriend material. More like friends with benefits material

[Scotte1us]

He is just kiding stupid, that could be too much love for you like squeezing

[LiamAskHer]

There are 3 options

1) He is a cheater (Least Likely)

2) he watches porn hub 24/7

3) he is a desperate virgin

[Anonymous]

He wants to pound you and nail you not rail you, lol, probably so horny because you haven’t done anything yet

[UrvashiKamini]

Then you are lucky.
Grab the chance

[jenna15]

boys go from romantic to that very fast

[888theGreat]

He will be pounding 3 or 4 girls soon

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he only wants sex. Only sex.

[Hotwifebecky]

Let him pound you

[Anonymous]

because he only does want you for sex

[Anonymous]

One week? Do you even know eachother?

[TheFlak38]

slut alert

[CuriousAZ]

he's immature.

[Jmmmfi4]

he's really horny