I see this as disrespectful... What do you think?

[Anonymous]

One morning recently I had woken up to my boyfriend getting off to half naked (and probably naked) girls on Instagram. I've talked to him before about how it makes me feel and that I find it disrespectful. I don't do things like that, why the need to look at other attractive women on purpose?

This isn't a matter of, "because you were asleep". He's done this before when I was awake. Except he left the room to try and be sneaky about it. Every day he tries to see how much he can get away with disrespectful things. Would you view this as disrespectful and crossing the line when your significant other already knows your opinion on it?

Yes it's disrespectful

No it's not disrespectful

[Flower7]

This is majorly disrespectful for sure. You shouldn't stay in this relationship if your boyfriend insists on doing things that upset you on a regular basis, especially after you've already tried to talk to him about it.

[Asker]

Agreed 100%. He constantly lies about it, but then will turn around and say all men do it. He tries to use his manipulation and narcissism towards me but it doesn't work

[Nomina]

okay, why are still with him if you know he's manipulative?

[Asker]

We live together now and I'm worried he might try to do something dangerous if I do break it off. I have to plan it right

[Hangry06]

While that is disrespectful, that is just him being a healthy heterosexual male
If it's too much, dump him

[MCheetah]

No, it's not disrespectful.
Especially if you're not giving him any sexual needs and you're not even awake at the time.

[Asker]

I give him plenty with his sexual needs. I please him while he doesn't return the favor. That's not the case at all, and again it's happened while I was awake too.

[Wise4myage]

A. Its time for you to dump this guy and find a new boyfriend who will show you more respect.