Would you tell you boyfriend or girlfriend that you have a learning disabilities?

[Anonymous]

would you tell you girlfriend that you have a learning disability? I have a reading disability and spelling. I did not know how she act. if she know that. I had this. I think she be ok. would you tell your you girlfriend about you disability? would you be shock to know that you boyfriend or girlfriend had a learning disability and did not tell you about? how do you feel about this? I feel normal and fine. I do not have to read or spell or writing that much. Just tell me what you think thank you

[lilyanony1]

When I went to university I knew I had a maths issue, it's something I've always struggled with. So when I could I got tested. I discovered I have dyscalculia.
I expected that I would receive help.
What I got was people uninterested in helping me beyond giving me extra time to write my dissertation.

I personally felt cheated by the people at my university even on the disability team. The reason being that I have worked bey hard for a long time to achieve the standard of work I did at the level I did.
At times I was told that I couldn't write the way I did because I wasn't writing for a PhD.

Anyways I told my ex partner and what he did was start to use this against me.

He treated me like an idiot.
So I let him to see how far he'd go.
And I was absolutely disgusted to see what he wanted me to do.

Anyways I kicked him to the curb and I have done for anyone that tries to play me me like that again.

[Asker]

that sad

[lilyanony1]

That's life, people aren't kind.

[Rachel794]

I would say yes. Being upfront about who you are, all of you, is great vulnerable communication for a relationship

[Petermorgan34]

My current girlfriend gas a learning disability and from her experiences that she shared, I would tell her. If you see her as wife material she deserves to know so she can help you. Learning disabilities may hinder learning but may not necessarily define you and what you are capable of, if she can't do it she is not the one, if she does she is your destiny, so it is up to you to play your cards right

[imfreeze95]

I have autism I don’t consider it a disability I do a lot of artwork read a lot and play 5 musical instruments.
I just don’t process emotion

[Pete671]

Hi! I also have autism, sometimes it's a gift, PM open if you want to chat,,,

[imfreeze95]

You have it set to where you have to
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[PiinkFalls]

I personally have ADHD and dyslexia which is never a good mix lol. But I have told all of my boyfriends this. There has never been a problem. I have also dated a couple of guys with autism, and that has never been a problem either.