Should I feel guilty for letting married women cheat on their husbands with me?

[Anonymous]

I have a really high sex drive that's difficult to control, and I always have a knack for falling for taken women, so I'm not gonna pass up the opportunity.

Part of me feels sorry for their husbands, but at the same time, THEY'RE the ones who lead me. She's a grownass woman who knows exactly what she's doing. What's going on in their marriage isn't my problem. If I have an opportunity, I'm gonna take it. If their marriage falls appart it's on HER. I didn't manipulate her in anyway.

To be honest, I'm more worried about him finding out and kicking my ass, then I am about his feelings. Is this selfish?

Stop messing around with married women

It's fine. Like you said it THEIR choice

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+1 y

What about just sexting?

[Pnp4unMe]

You should ask their husbands... if that's an issue, so is your actions. My fiance cheated on me and I could tell you this much I know who it was I know where he lives his phone number where he works his daily routines and I know when he brushes his teeth and wipes his ass and I have two guns and I guaran-damn-tee you that he's not going to live too much longer. So having said that you sure you want to be on the receiving end of that kind of behavior all for a piece of strange

[Asker]

Adultary isn't illegal, murder IS

"Guns don't kill people. Husbands who come home early do." - Larry the Cable Guy

But I told you I'm more concerned about getting my ass kicked.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Most men I've known who have cheated with a married woman, sooner or later regret that they destroyed families.

It is more than just him finding out, its him finding out and if there is children involved, a whole wide ranging ripple effect of damage, pulls in a lot of innocent people.

Best to not get involved at all, even if it was her doing the cheating. If you have any type of conscience you won't want to be part of hurting innocent people for your own pleasure.

There is of course always the possibility it will never be found out, and it can end eventually and her husband never finds out. She keeps it secret from him forever.

If you wanted to take those odds.

[Asker]

Thanks. I never thought of it that way.

[Hangry06]

You can be classified as a homewrecker but it all comes down to what you feel
Plus it's good that guys and girls like you exist. If karma exists, i hope you get such a wife

[Asker]

So you're saying it's good that we exist, but then you're saying we should get karma. But why are you only guilting ME, and not putting any blame on the woman?

[Hangry06]

Yes. Both lines are related. It's good men like you exist cause unfaithful women need to be paired up with guys like you. Won't it be unfair if they find husbands who would never sleep with other's wives?

This question is about YOU. Not about the women. If you want opinion on those women, please make another question or update it

[Asker]

AHA! Okay, that makes sense.

"Won't it be unfair if they find husbands who would never sleep with other's wives?"
This sentence is confusing.

Okay, I get that it's about ME, but I think the behavior of the women factors in to MY behavior.
You sound a bit hypocritical. Would I want MY woman messing around with other men, HELL NO? But this isn't about my wife. I'm single and both me and the guy's wife are getting something out of it, so why should I punished for it? It would be different if I was in a relationship and did it. But SHE'S the one ruining her marriage. She obviously has a reason, and I can provide something her husband can't, so both of us are getting something out of the situation.

[Hangry06]

Sleeping with other's wives shows a lot about your character and how you lack empathy. You are more likely to cheat in a relationship too cause it seems like you love acting like you did nothing wrong
. You deserve someone who is like you.
That's all

[Asker]

Okay yeah, maybe you're right. I think open relationship would be best for me.

[TruthBringer]

What can I say, I don't know how it is to be a homewrecker, neither know how it is to have my home wrecked. On one hand you're a piece of trash for doing this, on the other hand, I put the blame on the women for being unfaithful. Hey, perhaps you can turn a negative into a positive and show their husbands some evidence they can use in court. Just imagine if you were in their shoes, I think you would want to know.

[Anonymous]

Lots of married women are looking to cheat, they're super easy in my experience.
It doesn't mean that our actions don't have consequences. You fucking that slut can cause her kids to have go through their parents fighting and getting a divorce.
I just prefer to stay out of it.

[Asker]

But that's on her. If it's not me, it'll be someone else

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe, maybe not.
The only thing you can control is your actions. Whether she's a slut who's gonna fuck up her marriage or not isn't your concern. However, you're guaranteeing that she does.
You are contributing to her husband's pain and her kid's home getting split up.
You're making yourself an ingredient to the pain of others to satisfy your selfish needs.
You're correct to be scared of angry husbands and the fact that her kids will grow up hating you.

[Asker]

Like I said, if it's not me, it'll be someone else, so what difference does it make?

[Opinion Owner]

Just because some other guy might be a piece of shit, doesn't mean you have to be.
If you're smart enough to see the consequences of your actions, then you're responsible for the outcomes.

[Asker]

I'm not a piece of shit, I'm just horny. It's not MY marriage, so I could care less.

[Opinion Owner]

I get that. I just remember being in a situation where this married woman was pursuing me.
Her husband was going nuts about it and her son was stuck in the middle of the whole mess. I chose to ghost her because my happiness wasn't more important than her son's life in my opinion.
At some point you should acknowledge the guilt you feel. There's billions of other women out there, there's never a good reason to sleep with cheaters.
If she's not mature enough to get separated or divorced, then she's just a mess and I have no time for those married women anymore.

[Asker]

Only difference is in my case her husband doesn't know.

[Opinion Owner]

For now.
Some of these cheating wives like to leave their phones laying out with your conversations visible.
Some of them resent their husbands and want him to find out and be jealous. She has some sick fantasy of hurting him and having two men fighting over her.
If that's not the case, then eventually she's just gonna get sloppy and he's gonna notice.
If he never finds out, then congratulations, you managed to fuck an easy slut who will never leave him for you.
You're the man.

[Asker]

One of them said her husband walked in on her as we were swapping pics, but I guess he just thought she was looking at porn. Whatever it was, we didn't get busted, but it was a close call.
She said she tried hard to resist, but it was the first time she had gotten that kind of attention from a younger man, and it just became too tempting to overcome. And again, I never forced anyone to do anything they didn't want.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, in these situations it's less about what the cheater does and more about the pain you help inflict on their spouse.
It's about empathy and doing unto others as you'd have them do unto you.
If you don't have any respect for another man and his marriage then hopefully you have no complaints when other people take advantage of you.

[Asker]

I WILL. I admit I'm a hypocrite

[tomtom05131]

I don’t see a big issue with it. They are adults and can make up their own minds. I have sex with married women a lot and we have a great time.

[Asker]

I agree

[es20490446e]

What if I told you:
it isn't sex what you crave.

[Asker]

Than what is it?

[REDHOTLINE]

Of course. Its so bad