You bet that it is wrong.
It seems that you place so much emphasis on sex that you are willing to jeopardize your marriage and be the worst possible example for your children.
I do not endorse that people talks down to others but from there to seek another person just for sexual satisfaction is really not in your favor.
At least he is staying with the children. That alone is already a good thing about your husband.
Of course you are wrong. It's always a better option to just speak your truth about your unhappiness in the marriage and leave than to become involved with someone else while you're still married. Your children will respect you so much more for being honest and just saying that you and their father grew apart and you decided it was better to leave and just be friends--that would be a lot easier to explain to them than why you cheated on him. Besides, what kind of example are you setting for your children--not only as a mother, but as a woman--by allowing yourself to be with one man while married to another?
It's 100% wrong. There's no justification for it. Get a divorce. There's no legitimate excuse. You think you deserve happiness? Then leave. It's just selfish behavior because you're not think about the consequences that can be imposed upon your family. Also you're hiding your transgression from your family because you know it's a shameful activity. Just because you have no shame or respect doesn't mean you are doing the right thing.
You really don't deserve someone better if you think cheating is the way to go. Don't think it's for the kids or anything like that as really you getting with someone else is for the kids? I can understand where you're coming from and that sucks because you do need sex and stuff but don't cheat. And if you do, tell your husband that the filing for a divorce should start soon or that you just want to be roommates or something.
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He seems like a piece of trash, so leave instead of cheating.
Cheating may make you feel happy in those very moments you're together, but those feelings of happiness and fulfillment will only be temporary and shortlived.
If I was that unhappy in my marriage, I'd rather end it and build a life on my own, rather than rely on an affair to fill that void. That just makes you codependent on the person you're having an affair with. That's not healthy for your mental state in the long-term
Mam, according to me, I think it is still wrong as if he is not treating you well and you are not happy in a relationship, you should talk to eachother about it and if it doesn't work and you start liking someone else, you should end your relationship with your husband first.
Nothing justifies cheating. If you were fed up of him, you leave him and then get it on with some guy
Of course you’re in the wrong. If you aren’t happy with him then leave him.
Be mature enough to file divorce instead of cheating. Honey! don't degrade yourself for the lack of quality of someone. Just don't do it. You've to answer yourself.
Seriously must you ask this? If you're unhappy just get a divorce. Your arguments are just excuses, cheating is never the right answer.
Wow! Sorry to be judgmental but you have something a lot of women could only dream of. You sound very self-centred.
Cheating is wrong no matter the reason. If you're unhappy with your marriage my advice is to get a divorce. Then you're free to screw whoever lol.
It's wrong. But I can understand why you did it.
Being treated like that can drive you mad...
if your unhappy, get a divorce then go with someone else. no excuse for cheating.
Obvious troll is obvious
Disgusting slut. He should divorce rape you for your infidelity.
I don't think cheating is ever justified, and even more so when children are involved.
Some times live dont give you any other options...
You should'nt do that, if you don't like you can divorce..
Cheating is always wrong. Just leave him
Excuses excuses excuses fuck you trash burn in hell
wtf kinda question is this?, entitled c*nt
Typical female hypergamy at its finest!
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