Please help me I think he’s still having sex with his daughters mom?

[xolaurenxx]

I’ve been dating a guy for 2 months now. Yesterday I was round his house in his bathroom I saw a cream that was never there before with a girls name on it. I searched her name and it’s his daughters mom and there’s pictures of them all over Facebook together. She even shares his business page and has pictures in his house? I don’t know what to do shall I confront him about it? I’m not happy that I’m just some miss-tress to him in fact I’m so upset. I had a bad gut feeling and I was right. I don’t know if to confront him and say oh I saw it in you’re bathroom and google searched her? She’s a lot older than me so I feel very bad for her and that’s the daughters mom. I don’t know what to do. I’ve seen 5 pictures of them all together on Facebook and she shared a post of his last month when me and him already had just met. I even caught a Infection the other day and I only get that when my partner has gotten with someone else.

[GoldenCage]

Are you listening to yourself even?
- he gave you an STI
- His girlfriend posted recent pictures of them together celebrating
- her personal product found in his toilet
- her pictures all over the house

I don't know if you're delusional or not but that's his girlfriend and not you. And he'd try to manipulate you into staying. So confronting him or confronting her is irrelevant. You should absolutely leave that woman house.

[xolaurenxx]

I know how it seems I’m just not sure if I’m over reacting. There’s no pictures of her but she’s got Facebook pictures in his house. And the recent pic was like 2 months ago but this was when we were talking. And she shared his business page. But they share a baby so I’m just not sure if maybe they’re just friends still since they have a child? I probably sound so naive but for example my mom and dad were good friends while he had a girlfriend just for the sake of me? But maybe I’m being silly. I didn’t get a STD but it was BV I got and I only get that when the person I’ve been with has been sleeping around

[SnakeBoop]

If you're not happy, bring it up and then end it.
Either they simply get on well and you're insecure over it, or there is something dodgy going on, especially if he's said its over with her. Neither end up great.
AND. If you got a STD from him, WHY are you still there anyway?

[yofuknutz]

It could have been a yeast infection we do not know she doesn't state that

[SnakeBoop]

@yofuknutz yeast infections don't happen when a partner is unfaithful.

[SnakeBoop]

BV fyi asker is also not just caused by a partner being unfaithful:
What causes this to happen is not fully known, but you're more likely to get it if:

you're sexually active (but women who have not had sex can also get BV)
you have had a change of partner
you have an IUD (contraception device)
you use perfumed products in or around your vagina

[spartan55]

You already didn't trust him anyway. So, whatever you had was going nowhere.

[zaharuh]

I've had this happen to me before and it was really upsetting for me but like if you got infected you should just be staying away from him. That guy has serious issues.

[friendlypelican]

drop him. he literally bought the entire stock of red flags. it seems like you already had doubts plus the infection… bad vibes.

[Anonymous]

Talk about being a stalker going searching for someone online

[xolaurenxx]

I’m pretty sure if you saw another woman’s prescription cream and purple shampoo in you’re boyfriends bathroom you’d do the same.

[zaharuh]

@xolaurenxx I'd do the same tbh lol