Fiancee calls her mother and father and sister every day for 1-2 hours but does not allow me to text my family or friends, what can I do?

[Anonymous]

What can I do to make her realise this behaviour is controlling and not okay?

[TheFlak38]

This is entirely your fault for being such a desperate sad loser getting engaged with this control bitch. The reason why she does it but you're not allowed to do the same is because she needs to build up her support network and have it ready for the day she will destroy your life completely. From now on she is your master and the day she decided that she had enough of you she will start inventing problems out of nothing just cause drama. Then the calls to her family will continue. She would have to tell them what a poor victim she is and what a filthy pig you are. Have fun.

[FunkyMonkee]

1. Lay down the law with her, or
B. Drop her like a hot brick!
Sounds to me like you've got at least a BUDDING abusive relationship going on, there! What makes her any better than you that you can't call up your parents, etc?

[Anonymous]

Does not allow?

DOES NOT ALLOW?

Are you a man or a mouse? Be a man you dipshit. Grow a spine. Unwrap your testes. Let her try to control you, and FAIL. You're a man. She can't physically stop you, and emotional manipulation should have no impact on you because honestly you should be LOVING the prospect of this engagement falling apart.

[Asker]

If I do send messages even a single message she will say things like why didn’t you message me instead, are you a mommas boy messaging your mum, what are you messaging about me etc etc. I’m too scared to message or she will abuse me over it

[Opinion Owner]

Too scared? Okay, you're a mouse then. Have fun living under her bootheel while she cheats on you and you can raise some kids that aren't yours.

[Koalamate]

Um what lol your a man tell her that's not OK and call your family anyway.
I'm sorry but this is a little funny

[slatyb]

Get the hell out. This should be a dealbreaker.

[SnakeBoop]

Leave her.

[Anonymous]

LMAO you sound like you're a hostage. dump her